Suicide

Posted by $ jbrenner 9 years, 9 months ago to Culture
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Recently one of the funniest comedians ever, Robin Williams, committed suicide. In AS, quite a few people committed suicide. I can never support suicide. However, is suicide a logical response to an illogical world? If so, please explain.


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  • Posted by Hiraghm 9 years, 9 months ago in reply to this comment.
    Speaking of which...

    ever notice how in the media, even on Fox News, intolerant Moslems are referred to as "radical", and intolerant Christians/Jews are referred to as "fundamentalist"?

    As if intolerance was inherent in Christianity and Judaism, but an aberration in Islam.
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  • Posted by Hiraghm 9 years, 9 months ago in reply to this comment.
    "He still had the ability to achieve great things but he gave up on himself."

    Check your premise.
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  • Posted by Hiraghm 9 years, 9 months ago in reply to this comment.
    No offense intended, but I hate that "family" s... stuff.
    I had a family. An association of people not related to me by blood, and with whom I did not grow up is not a family.

    I guess I hate it because I grew up in the 60s/70s when the cults were suckering in disillusioned kids with creepy promises of "family".

    I remember when playing online games, I'd join a guild, and within days someone would be talking about how this guild was a "family". A family of people who'd never even seen each other and lived all over the world. Argh.

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  • Posted by RevJay4 9 years, 9 months ago in reply to this comment.
    I, too, hope that death is not the end of life, just a new beginning for whatever is next. Doesn't make sense to learn so much in one lifetime then to lose all that experience by a physical death of the body. Irrational? Maybe.
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  • Posted by Hiraghm 9 years, 9 months ago in reply to this comment.
    I'd heard cuts on his wrists... possibly from desperate attempts to undo the belt, fingernails or the buckle cutting him.
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  • Posted by RevJay4 9 years, 9 months ago
    I'm not entirely convinced that suicide is an out, just a temporary relief from the present situation. As I consider this life to be a lesson I need to face and learn from to go on to the next. Whatever that is.
    That together with my never-ending curiosity and vibrant imagination keep me from seriously considering taking my own life. Whatever that is.
    Its worked for 70 some odd years. So far, so good.
    Have I faced personal adversity in my life? Yup. Some of them personally devastating, where I gave some thought to leaving the planet? Yup. What stopped me? Always something caught my interest and made me wonder what was around the next corner in this journey.
    Looking back I could see that whatever made me think of ending my life was not all that serious in the grand scheme of life. Just a momentary bump in the road. To be endured and learned from to the next bump.
    That's just me. I am an individual, not anyone else, that is how I handle my life and whatever problems I encounter. I cannot, and will not, speak to anyone else's experience, for I am not them. Each to his own.
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  • Posted by Hiraghm 9 years, 9 months ago
    At risk of engendering even more hostility, I'm compelled to share an alternate theory of the crime.

    Two of my co-workers, independent of me, thought of the same alternate possibility for Robin Williams' death.... death by misadventure (accident).

    Based on the description of how he was found, it still seems possible that he died as a result of auto-erotic asphyxiation.

    I find it ironic that, if true, it would be better to describe it as a suicide for his memory's sake and the sake of his family.

    One of my co-workers told me of a movie Robin Williams had made "The World's Greatest Dad". I hadn't seen it, but apparently Williams plays the father of a man who died of auto-erotic asphyxiation.

    Who knows, maybe the near-asphyxiation was a way to deal with his manic episodes (with nothing to do with the sexual part).

    Part of me, the part that liked him, doesn't want to know if this was the case. The other part wants to know the truth, no matter how ugly.
    These two parts seldom play well together.
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  • Posted by Hiraghm 9 years, 9 months ago in reply to this comment.
    If you look on my twitter, facebook, or instagram accounts, you'll see I don't have a picture of myself as my avatar.

    I don't like to look in mirrors.

    I don't see myself sitting in front of a camera talking to myself.

    One of the endless projects of mine was to create a cartoon avatar, and using iClone software and a Kinect, have an animated character on Youtube. Problem is, not sure what he'd talk about. God knows there doesn't seem to be an audience for alienating, acid-tongued rhetoric.


    But I thank you for the suggestion.
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  • Posted by johnpe1 9 years, 9 months ago in reply to this comment.
    he had other talents,,, of course -- I was just
    trying to narrow it down ... without alcohol !!! -- j

    p.s. gave up alcohol 31jan2011 -- Dr. orders,,,
    for liver, etc....

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  • Posted by starznbarz2002 9 years, 9 months ago
    Robin Williams was a wonderful actor, and comedian, but he had so many demons to fight....I think he was simply overwhelmed. He committed suicide. The man is dead. Time to give him and his family the dignity he deserves.
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  • Posted by $ 9 years, 9 months ago in reply to this comment.
    Thanks, Maree. It is precisely the anti-life vs. Galt's oath question that I am trying to reconcile in my mind. If it were me that had to make this choice, I would consider it an exceedingly difficult contradiction. When others are considering this choice, I counsel against suicide, but ultimately it is that person's decision.
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  • Posted by johnpe1 9 years, 9 months ago
    Dr. Jim,,, after some calm, slow, patient thought .......
    Robin was gifted with two exceptional talents --
    speed of thought and allegory (or something like it)
    which led to delightful humor. That british bobby
    looks like he has a turtle on his head! fast and funny
    and innovative at the same time.

    now. if I had that running in my head, and I had
    trouble controlling it -- the speed, the newness --
    I might want to slow it down, or to get relief from it
    sometimes. this might lead to drugs, alcohol,,,,,

    I personally loved alcohol because it gradually
    narrowed my brain down to a single track, when
    I was about half drunk. I bet that he had to be
    really zonked to reach the one-track state.

    he might just have burned out from the wear and
    tear of having such power running up top. -- j

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  • Posted by johnpe1 9 years, 9 months ago in reply to this comment.
    when I smack my hand on a countertop, it hurts.
    that's an absolute. there are others. -- j

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  • Posted by johnpe1 9 years, 9 months ago in reply to this comment.
    hey, john!! piss us off! go ahead! we will stick with
    you, regardless! this is a good place for people to
    be themselves and live life naturally. Live It, sir!!! -- j

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  • Posted by johnpe1 9 years, 9 months ago in reply to this comment.
    my hope, Hiraghm, derives from experience. so far,
    the stupid stuff I've done hasn't killed me. amazing.

    I just try to avoid doing things which I can't expect to
    go well, from experience and extrapolation. but I do
    love motorcycles (have two) and riding gives
    a sense of freedom.

    may your experience lead to hope for years to
    come, including your attempts to become notorious
    as an acid-tongue on the net!!! -- j

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  • Posted by johnpe1 9 years, 9 months ago in reply to this comment.
    Teri, my mom died from complications begun with
    breast cancer, which metastasized to her brain, then
    her bones, etc..... and we asked for pain medicine
    when she was dying from starvation, since she
    could not keep food down ....... and the answer
    was, "Morphine depresses heart rate and
    respiration." translation::: fear of a lawsuit.

    very sad. -- j

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  • Posted by preimert1 9 years, 9 months ago in reply to this comment.
    In a physical sense your mother makes your body and you sustain it using the elements from the planet where you are born. Life is passed to you by your mother as well. The state of life is analogous to fire in that it can expand indefinitely if there is fuel and an oxidant and certain other conditions, life can expand undiminished. If that analogy holds, its a form of energy.

    First law of Thermo says energy is never lost, just changes its form. So it pleases me to think that a ray of sunshine that warms my back on a chilly day, or a gentle breeze that caresses my cheek may be someone I loved or who once loved me.

    The concept of a soul, if there is one, is intangible. I'd like to believe we have one and its the essence, intellect, whatever, of who we are, but I see no way to prove it in a strictly physical universe.
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  • Posted by preimert1 9 years, 9 months ago in reply to this comment.
    H, why not get a video camera and make a prolonged selfie? You could script it or have someone interview you, introduce snapshots, visual aids, etc. Stephen Spielberg had a project to do just that with Holocaust survivors. I can see John Wayne now in old movies jut as much as I ever did when he was alive (which was never in person) You could even debut on You Tube or Facebook.
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  • Posted by johnmahler 9 years, 9 months ago in reply to this comment.
    I'm sure. Have you tried Al-Anon? They and Mental Health for Families can help. I go to both AA and Al-Anon because there is a sober person living in my head with the alcoholic. LOL I live with the alcoholic and the bi-polar wife. She also has OCD and is a hoarder. FUN? Anyone? Life on life's terms. It would get me down but with my HP, AA, Al-Anon, I am OK
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