I'm very happy to have landed in the Gulch...
and so happy to find folks who see the world as clearly as I do. It is often a burden to experience people who are brainwashed as to "how you should be". Freedom and Liberty...has always felt so natural to me. Follow your heart and you will be able to live with any consequences from it.
Follow what others tell you and you will feel the fool if it doesn't go the way they said it would.
Selfishness it works. The theory of invisible hands struck me since my economics course in college. My frustration is that most people don't see or don't want to see this simple easy to understand fact of life.