Recently Bout of Clarity

Posted by $ Abaco 7 years, 8 months ago to Philosophy
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I exercise caution when I use the word "clarity". I've known some who claim to have it. Some actually seem to. Not all, though.

As some here know, I enjoy long range fishing trips out of San Diego. I recently came back to shore after a shorter trip, four days. We had no tv, no internet, no social media, no news, no talk radio... It was just a group of fishermen enjoying great conversation between schools of fish. Had a nice conversation with the captain of the boat who happens to be an Atlas Shrugged fan.

Something really hit me when I returned to land. I turned on the media to find a population absolutely fixated on the most trivial, useless BS. First headlines were about how Trump's wife stole the First Lady's speech. Then, there was the violence of Nice France, another cop shooting, etc. People I interfaced with back on land seemed so unhappy, miserable. I was really struck with how out of place I felt after this trip. It's common, but this was a serious bout. I took my boy to a sports camp the morning after I returned and looked at all the parents: many grossly out of shape, glued to their phones with their kids standing right next to them. Went to the bank after that and I was the only one in line who didn't have a sob story for the bank teller. I was the only one not broke. Right after I returned, driving about 10 hours to get home, I narrowly avoided a head-on collision when a guy came into my lane with his eyes glued down to his phone. Had I not been paying very close attention I wouldn't be here to type this.

While standing at the sports camp the thought clearly jumped into the front of my mind, "I don't belong here." It has been an interesting paradigm. I'm really seeing things from a different perspective than most. I know many here can relate. My current bout is strong...


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  • Posted by DrZarkov99 7 years, 8 months ago
    You've fallen into the trap of envelopment, where the dysfunctional around you affect your emotions. Maybe it's just surviving for over seven decades, but I've determined not to let "crowd effects" influence my attitude or thinking, doing my own thing regardless of what people expect.

    When people ask me why I keep a reasonably sunny disposition, I tell them my attitude can be summed up in three phrases: sht happens; life's a bich, and then you die; and every day above ground is a good one. Dwelling on things we don't like, and may not be able to change, is a waste of energy, time, and resources.
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  • Posted by khalling 7 years, 8 months ago
    I just came back from the US (Vegas). The only people with clear , burning eyes and quick thinking were either at the Atlas Summit or gulchers who met there. I admit that I missed FreedomFest, but I was there when it opened. Some seemed awake, some did not. and the unhappiness everywhere-and the complete obliviousness-say in a grocery store. People running into each other with their carts! Either they were staring off and unaware of their space and others-or they were texting-waiting for a text.
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    • Posted by $ 7 years, 8 months ago
      Yeah...something has been going on in America for some time now. My mother went expat for about 15 years, living on a boat. She and her husband got too old to do that anymore and came back, settling in Florida a few years ago. After being gone that long, then being back about a month she called me one day and started with, "What happened to Americans?" "What do you mean, mom?" "They've gotten so stupid..." I'll never forget that. I had seen it too.

      When you look at the real numbers for Americans on prescription meds, many that have known side effects, I think that may play a role in all this. TV and much entertainment media has gotten too stupid for me. I literally can't watch much of it.

      There's something going on. It first hit me when I'd take my son on bike rides along the river trail near our house. He was a toddler, riding in his little bike trailer. I'd stop and show him stuff like rattle snakes, etc. But, one day I realized that most people where riding their bikes right up to 5' rattle snakes that were laying right across the trail (and visible from 100 yards away). These people, typically, would ride right up to the snakes (well within striking range) with the most vacuous looks on their faces. Even if a couple of us were jumping up and down warning "Rattle snake!" Didn't matter. These people were like zombies. That was when I first knew something was really wrong.
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      • Posted by $ Olduglycarl 7 years, 8 months ago
        One of my more famous sayings: Step away from the prescription drugs...
        There seems to be a host of things effecting the unaware: drugs, modified food, leftist disempowerments, lies about history and Solar, cosmic electromagnetic intrusions into the troposphere...- yea...it does effect the brains of those unaware.
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  • Posted by salta 7 years, 8 months ago
    I have experienced those "out of place" feelings after returning from rock climbing trips. Climbing has the ability to remove all the daily trivial nonsense from your mind, you can only afford to focus on what you are doing to overcome gravity.
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    • Posted by $ 7 years, 8 months ago
      I used to fly - private pilot. Same result.

      I have discussed this with other fishermen. We also have to focus to have good success - feeling the bait swimming on our lines, etc. I think, to some degree, playing golf does this for us, too. That's why having a ringing phone on the golf course has always been considered a big offense.
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      • Posted by Hot_Black_Desiato 7 years, 8 months ago
        Same here, Single, Multi and instrument rated.

        I often turn off all the technology and remove myself from the everyday stuff. People can claim all that TV, violent video games, constant exposure to the craziness and violence has NO impact on how people behave and react. That is bull. All these external influences, anesthetizes us to bad behavior making it acceptable and if we do not watch ourselves we can slide into behavior today would never have considered ten years ago.
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  • Posted by jimslag 7 years, 8 months ago
    I feel the same way. I visited Belize for month to visit my parents in September/October and then another month in January/February time frame and just felt out of place when I returned. I just feel out of place and that I don't belong in the US anymore. I still believe in the American Dream but I feel it does not belong to a specific geography, like the US, that it can be taken up no matter where. That it is an idea that can be transported to wherever you are. Some have taken this up already, I know the Hallings are in Mexico (I think) and someone (I think Abaco) is the Bahamas. I will be moving to Belize as soon as I finish everything here and will transport my Dream there on 3 acres and in a little 600 square foot house. Also, no, I am keeping track of where everyone is, I am just using examples of people I have conversed with that have expressed where they live, nothing specific, just country.
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  • Posted by johnpe1 7 years, 8 months ago
    Well Said, Sir! . the world has gone nuts! . as Rand would say,
    "check your premises." . the majority have lost touch
    with reality and are disappointed when reality intrudes
    in the middle of their fantasies! -- j
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  • Posted by coaldigger 7 years, 8 months ago
    I love fishing but have no desire to catch a fish. I love everything about golf but the game is irrelevant. The discipline to be patient, the elegance of being respectful and sportsmanlike while trying to "win" is so regal and worthy of humankind. It is no wonder that we feel something when engaging in these activities. I love history from a humanistic point of view. Antiquities that represent the minds and talents of those that went before us are thrilling. Music, art, ancient discoveries leading to the state we find ourselves today are so interesting and necessary as a foundation for our future accomplishments.

    My wife and I love Italy and although we are not religious, we are in awe of the cathedrals and the art they contain. We love the cuisine that is the result of peasants making the most out of what was available through creativity. The vistas of ancient lands and the crops they yield are our favorite things (especially the grapes).

    While their government and economy is a disaster the people give us hope in gong about their day-to-day business as if it did not exist. I am trying to channel this philosophy so my remaining years (I am turning 75) can be lived in peace
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