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Rejected an Assignment, 1st Time in My Career

Posted by $ Abaco 8 years, 2 months ago to Business
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I did something I have never done before earlier this week. I have always been the kind of engineer who management could turn to in order to pull their asses out of the fire. I could take on all kinds of challenges, even tried some impossible ones. All I ever really got was an "atta-boy" for those jobs. Well, I've been doing that for too long. Over the past couple weeks I was offered a task where I'd be working WAY over my pay level, directing multiple offices, tying to get data from a source that won't give it, etc. and was told that if I took this "high profile" assignment it would "make or break" my career. It was typical of so many of these assignments - I'd have all the responsibility but none of the authority. So, for the first time in my career I shrugged. I said, "No thanks." It felt great. I figure I'll get some fallout for this, but in the long run it will be worth it. I care so much about the work I do that if I'm tasked with building a tower of tinker toys to the moon I'll get a heart attack trying to do it. That's the engineer in me. Management picks up on that. They also, always, have demonstrated that I'm the guy who can figure stuff out. I just want to get paid more to do it, now. So...this week marks a turning point for me.

In my other line of work I'm my own boss, thankfully.


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  • Posted by iroseland 8 years, 2 months ago in reply to this comment.
    That is still getting done.. Back in the 90's when I was exiting college I landed an interview at a HPUX shop. Not really what I really wanted to be doing, but the pay looked reasonable and I needed to be making money. During the interview they asked me what I knew about printing. Turned out they had no idea how to up a new printer. So, I did that quick. A few days later they informed me that they found someone with more experience. After that, I had a general rule of don't show off, just interview.
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  • Posted by scojohnson 8 years, 2 months ago
    I'm happy to hear it, now try life without a safety net and start your own business.
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  • Posted by plusaf 8 years, 2 months ago in reply to this comment.
    The kinds of rewards employees WANT for their efforts (exceptional work or daily grind) vary with the person, their experience, age, and a jillion other influencers.
    I'm reading that your management doesn't know what's Important To You, and whether they never asked or you never made it clear, there are more facts needing to be examined.
    Good Luck to you, seriously!
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  • Posted by plusaf 8 years, 2 months ago in reply to this comment.
    ... reminds me of the assholes back in the '80s that asked interviewees to 'solve a typical problem'...
    Usually a problem they couldn't solve themselves.
    The right response turned out to be "yep, I can solve that... hire me and I will" rather than to try to offer an actual solution.
    They were using interviewees as unpaid short-term contractors and you'd never hear back from them with an offer.

    Slimers.
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  • Posted by ewv 8 years, 2 months ago in reply to this comment.
    If it's something you don't want to do and would replace what you love even a pay increase isn't enough. Don't temp them!
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  • Posted by Owlsrayne 8 years, 2 months ago
    This typical of large companies, they won't even say thank you for a job well done despite the odds completing it .
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  • Posted by $ MichaelAarethun 8 years, 2 months ago in reply to this comment.
    Some go to the beach, some bring them along and I have choices where my boat goes there are beaches add anchor and water life is sweet
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  • Posted by jetmec 8 years, 2 months ago
    I don't blame you! The last time I did a project I found someone else's name on it! Strange that when I left so did all the paper work and all the information to do the job left with me! If you need any help any time contact me and I will help you, I'm off sick at the moment and need something to do!
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  • Posted by term2 8 years, 2 months ago in reply to this comment.
    Just telling you that it is one of the very difficult things in business. If you had to do it, you would know.
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  • Posted by $ Susanne 8 years, 2 months ago in reply to this comment.
    Overhead and profit margins are basic to running any business, from a fast food restaurant to a steel mill. If an employer can't figure out what to pay their employees, maybe they're in the wrong business.
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  • Posted by Tyler1215 8 years, 2 months ago
    It seems like this is an epidemic going around for quite a few of us.

    I reached a point with my own manager where we left a meeting with others, including the CEO, and my manager said that the project was my responsibility. I disagreed with him as the CEO has assigned roles to everyone else at the meeting beside my manager and me. I informed my manager that I am available to help with the project when requested, but my workload did not permit me to be actively engaged with the project. My manager then questioned my workload, which includes several high importance projects from the entire C-suite that have implications on the future of the company. My manager then told me to give those projects back. I was dumbstruck as the same manager told me that anything from the C-suite is a priority and i was very passionate about doing those particular projects. After a hour and a half of debating; and contemplating resigning on the spot, I stated to my manager that the projects will be done and I walked out of his office.
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  • Posted by term2 8 years, 2 months ago in reply to this comment.
    figuring out wages is a very tough thing for the employer, as its really a function of what the competition is in terms of labor as well as product value.
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  • Posted by $ Olduglycarl 8 years, 2 months ago
    Authority and responsibility go hand in hand, especially in a make or break situation.

    Hope it all works out.
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  • Posted by $ Susanne 8 years, 2 months ago in reply to this comment.
    Part of the employer-employee process is negotiating what the value of your services are worth to you while performing work for the employer, and what your value to the employer of your services is to them, and what they consider fair trade of said skills and services.

    It also involves, at times, renegotiation as your skillset and profitability to your employer increase. I have been with the same company going on 30 years, and in that time I have successfully renegotiated my value to the employer through renegotiation of the terms and compensation of employment numerous times to our mutual benefit. There are many factors at play, however - they compensate me fairly for what I produce for them, I like the company and the people I work with and for, and we understand each other quite well.

    The rare times someone has asked me to be uncompensated for going well above and beyond are met with a polite - but firm - no thank you. They know my position well, as do I theirs. I have done things above and beyond, but only if I receive a tangible benefit for it (knowledge, skills, abilities, etc.) that -I- foresee are saleable. They know this, and that I live by it. Consequently, they don't waste their time on frivolous offers they know I won't touch, leaving that to the sheep instead. It took them a few pokes, but I'm happy, and they're happy.

    Not that I won't help out in a pinch - but they KNOW they will make it right.
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  • Posted by johnpe1 8 years, 2 months ago in reply to this comment.
    it was a "What's yours is mine, and what's mine is mine"
    kind of relationship, but he mellowed a lot. -- j
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  • Posted by Zenphamy 8 years, 2 months ago
    Those 'atta boys' are hard to cash and one 'ah shit' will wipe out 100 'atta boys'. Congratulations on determining your worth and asserting it.
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  • Posted by $ jbrenner 8 years, 2 months ago in reply to this comment.
    Serves him right.
    However, one of my bosses once told me that my job was to make him look good, and if I did, he would make me look good. As at the end of Casablanca, that was the start of a beautiful relationship.
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  • Posted by $ SarahMontalbano 8 years, 2 months ago
    Good job, Abaco! I'm glad that you are finally learning to say no. I have a lot of trouble with this myself, but it's encouraging to see that you have stood up for your self-interest. We seem to be the most generous people on this planet sometimes, and others realize this, and exploit it.
    I'm glad you are going on strike in these ways.
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  • Posted by johnpe1 8 years, 2 months ago
    I was attacked by a less-qualified supervisor after a
    meeting where he took credit for my work and I objected --
    during the meeting. . he lit into me for insubordination,
    saying that he had the right to take credit, as my boss.
    I told him that he should not have lied. . he wanted
    my continued hard work, so it became a stalemate.
    here's to your good luck, Abaco -- may your deal be
    sweeter and better, and soon! -- j
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  • Posted by johnpe1 8 years, 2 months ago
    you may be on the path to getting that increase in pay,
    sir, after declining to take their bait. . they may realize
    that they need to sweeten the deal. -- j
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