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Carrie Fisher: Youth and Beauty Aren't Accomplishments

Posted by $ nickursis 10 years, 5 months ago to Culture
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I admire the fact that she is not hiding in a corner and crying at these goobers. I really like her tweets back. Our society has taken the individual and lumped them up into pseudo clones of imagination. There are some women who have put in huge amounts of time and effort to "look good", but the fact CF is just accepting life as it happens should be just as ok. Being 58, I am with her 100% and find her stand for her individual interpretation of life laudable.


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  • Posted by johnpe1 10 years, 5 months ago in reply to this comment.
    to beat it all, it was her father ... who raped her, for
    years, starting when she was about 2 and lasting
    until she was about 8. . . . she was deathly afraid of
    bridges, because he had held her out of the car window
    when crossing a bridge, saying, "If you tell our secrets,
    I will drop you." . . some people are just evil. -- j
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  • Posted by $ Abaco 10 years, 5 months ago in reply to this comment.
    I, for whatever reason, probably wouldn't regret beating a child abuser into a vegetative state. This is because they are the worst of the worst, and the most damaging of all perps.
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  • Posted by $ jlc 10 years, 5 months ago in reply to this comment.
    Well, I do not consider myself really competent at jujitsu (admittedly, I am not a goddess of war at broadsword fighting either, but I am solidly competent at that sport). It really should not count if I terrify folks because I am a klutz.

    Jan
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  • Posted by $ WilliamShipley 10 years, 5 months ago in reply to this comment.
    I found myself wondering which martial art you were regularly beating up on 20+ year old guys who are bigger than you.

    I know you do it in the one I take part in, but I think you do it in the other one too. Weren't the black belts complaining about how brutal you were?
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  • Posted by $ Thoritsu 10 years, 5 months ago in reply to this comment.
    Got get 'em! I am coming up on 50 this year!

    Of course I assume some physical features women find attractive in men are similarly survival traits. Both sexes have a ways to go to separate the animal from the intellectual. Sometimes I wonder how much of each is needed.
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  • Posted by $ MichaelAarethun 10 years, 5 months ago in reply to this comment.
    it's called a dangling participle meaning the writer didn't finish the thought. It leaves one dangling waiting for the end. I find it doesn't matter. It is rare to find someone who knows to where they are going and a great ,many who don't know where they are going to? The redundant ending gives a clue they are clueless.

    The answer of course is "you know what I meant."

    "Did I? How could I know when you didn't?
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  • Posted by $ jlc 10 years, 5 months ago in reply to this comment.
    I was trying to quote my father, who often quoted that part of the Air Corp OCS manual on how to write a formal report. I believe that is what he said it said.

    I had heard the "...up with which I shall not put." but had forgotten it! Thanks for the reminder.

    Jan
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  • Posted by $ WilliamShipley 10 years, 5 months ago in reply to this comment.
    Oh, yes, sex drugs rock & roll. She's lucky to still be alive. She's done well behind the camera in recent years.

    I guess I am mostly reacting to her comments about youth and beauty which also included the fact that they only wanted 3/4 of her and she had to lose about 35 lbs by diet and exercise. She seems to feel that was sexist and unfair.

    I think that's part of being an actor. Lots of male actors spend a lot of time in the gym, it's a visual medium and how you look is an important part of doing your job. So I'm not so inclined to be sympathetic.

    Now, if she had gotten the criticism because she was on stage getting a screenwriting award, I would agree.
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  • Posted by IndianaGary 10 years, 5 months ago in reply to this comment.
    I'm paraphrasing here, but a famous author was once chastised for ending a sentence with a preposition. She responded (approximately), "This is nonsense, up with which I shall not put!" [it might have been Dorothy Parker, but I'm not certain]
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  • Posted by $ jlc 10 years, 5 months ago in reply to this comment.
    You should read the link that johnpe posted above. Lots more has been going on with Carrie Fisher...!

    Jan
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  • Posted by $ jlc 10 years, 5 months ago in reply to this comment.
    That was interesting reading, johnpe. I looked up more on Lithium and discovered that between about 1930-1948, 7Up contained lithium. This was deliberate, as the drink was sold as a mood relaxer.

    Carrie Fisher's story reminds me a bit of Claudia Christensen's. (The latter was Susan Ivanovna in Babylon 5.) Two actresses who tore themselves up with addiction and psychiatric problems...but ultimately clawed their way back into reality.

    Thanks for the excellent link.

    Jan
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  • Posted by $ jlc 10 years, 5 months ago in reply to this comment.
    OK. Now I understand. I thought you were making a reference to some current tidbit of knowledge that I had missed: For instance, I looked up "Dorothy Hamell" to see if she had played a part in Jurassic World...where you could indeed have seen her running from a T-rex!

    I will take your explanation as a complement. I have recently had my 63rd bday. I have never been particularly attractive, but I still do two types of martial arts. At one of them, I regularly beat up on nice 20+ year old guys who are bigger than I am.

    Overall, I agree with you. As women increasingly have professions and lives of their own, we will have more to 'bring to the table' than bloodlines and bodies. But this is what society has accorded us for millennia, so it will take some time.

    Happy New Year.

    Jan, preening
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