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  • Posted by $ Markus_Katabri 6 months, 2 weeks ago
    I’m just going to say this once please don’t be offended but I’ve never understood the compelling desire boomers have to answer EVERY phone call. If you don’t recognize the number kick it to voicemail. If you do pick up and there’s a long silence after your first “hello” either hang up or start screwing with them.
    The days of this nation being a “High Trust” society are long gone. Act accordingly.
    That is all.
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    • Posted by mccannon01 6 months, 2 weeks ago
      To venture a guess, because I am a "boomer", boomers answer all phone calls because during the first half of their lives (or more) every time the phone rang and you were home to pick it up it was usually something important or someone you (or someone in your family) actually wanted to talk to. Telemarketing and phone scams hadn't been invented yet. We didn't have a recorder on the line to take a message so if you didn't pick up you missed the call and had no idea who called. The first phone number in my house as a child was a "party line" if anyone remembers what those were.

      Today, on the cell phone, unrecognized numbers can be important (like a doctors office) or not. Usually, I don't say an actual word and just do a throat clear in case a scammer is recording my voice. If a not wanted caller (computer, scammer, marketer) starts blathering I hang up, but old habits still have me picking up the call.
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      • Posted by GaryL 6 months, 2 weeks ago
        Today it is highly likely for your daughter, mother or wife to misplace or have a dead battery. A good samaritan stops to help and lets her use his phone that you won't pick up. Better to pick up and give the caller 30 seconds before dumping him/her.
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      • Posted by $ gharkness 6 months, 2 weeks ago
        Yes, my family was on an 8-party line! Whoo, talk about gossip! Thank goodness we eventually got a private line. Nobody even knows what party line and private line mean any more.

        Now about answering the phone. Exactly. No way to know who it was, and no way to leave a message. I managed to get over that very quickly, but my ex was adamant that NO MATTER what any of us were doing, if the phone rang, we MUST answer it. My present husband is like....so, the phone is ringing. Who cares?

        Plus, if you want to pick up a call, you don't really need to "justify" that to anyone. For me, it depends on where the call APPEARS to be from (what state), who I might be expecting to hear from, and whether I am in the mood that day :-) But I am lightning fast to hit the block button if it's someone selling something. Of course, then, they just spoof a different phone number, and start over....
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    • Posted by Rex_Little 6 months, 2 weeks ago
      Screwing with them is one of my hobbies. If they ask my age, I give it to them in days (27113 at this writing). Often they'll then ask my birthdate; I'll tell them to start from today and count backwards on the calendar.

      If they ask my name, first name is Mike, last name is Rotch. Once in awhile they'll repeat the full name. . .

      Occasionally the call ends with the caller telling me to f*** myself. Nice to know I've accomplished my mission.
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      • Posted by $ Snezzy 6 months, 2 weeks ago
        If appropriate I'll speak in Hindi. No, I don't know much Hindi, but I can say "Ullu ka patha" which is a very mild curse.

        Once when I called one of the government departments the person on the other end asked me, "Whassa soash?" It took quite a while for me to figure it out. Anyone care to guess?
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        • Posted by Rex_Little 6 months, 2 weeks ago
          Pretty sure he wants your Social Security number.

          Some of the more blatant scammers ask for my Medicare card number. I tell them it's 4Q-CHARLY-BYE.
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          • Posted by $ Snezzy 6 months, 2 weeks ago
            Indeed, at that office the almost-word "soash" does seem to be the in-house abbreviation for the SSN. There is no reason, though, to expose clients to such arcane terminology, unexplained.

            Also, I think I was too kind in my transcription of the person's words. It was more like "Whasoash?"
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    • Posted by NealS 6 months, 2 weeks ago
      I bought a whole new phone system because Century Link where we are still uses old technology that can't block calls or any of the other features most of you enjoy. My new system blocks every call, requiring the caller to leave a name and press a key to get through, at least until they are approved. I can then approve them or lock them out entirely. Unfortunately some of the banking fraud systems can't get through to me because their automated system can't handle the intervention unless I have pre approved their phone number. In reviewing my list of incoming attempted calls I can just delete the numbers, mark them to a permanent block list, or mark them to the approval list. It works great, it saves me from 5 to 18 robo or other freak calls per day. It even blocks the politicians begging for money, I'd give them money except they haven't fixed the DNC (DoNotCall) program yet. In the past year I've only had maybe three beggars try to break through my blocker. Being from the old school I cuss at them and ask them who gave them the authorization to talk to me. They usually just hang up, then I permanently block their number.
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    • Posted by $ pixelate 6 months, 2 weeks ago
      Yes, and I have been doing the same -- in particular if I have an extra couple minutes -- I start the slow turbine of mixing with their very limited mental capacities, then shout something unintelligible and hang up.
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    • Posted by AmericanWoman 6 months, 2 weeks ago
      Have you noticed you can search the truth older folks....I being one once with the boomer title is not the same meaning anymore. People born from 1946 to 1964 is the new description perhaps you are in the group?
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  • Posted by mshupe 6 months, 2 weeks ago
    Were the callers selling a Medicare Advantage supplement? If so, they do not represent Medicare or the government and are likely cold callers with a script. That's all they would know. I went through this two years ago. My best advice, what I did, is ignore Medicare Advantage and pay for a Medicare Supplement instead.
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    • Posted by $ gharkness 6 months, 2 weeks ago
      I did the exact opposite: got an Advantage Plan and did not pay for a Supplement. But the reasoning for that is different for every person. One day, if I ever have to actually go to the doctor, I may buy a supplement plan instead.
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      • Posted by mshupe 6 months, 2 weeks ago
        Yes, that may be a good solution for you. One thing I learned is that if you don't enroll in the supplement when you're first eligible, you may have to prove insurability later.
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        • Posted by $ gharkness 6 months, 2 weeks ago
          That may be true. There IS a rule similar to that (if not exactly that - I don't know for sure). The reason it's not a problem for me is that my first year, I DID enroll in a supplement. After paying a bunch of money and getting nothing for it, after that I switched to an advantage plan. So that was one year with the Plan F, I believe (best at the time, though now they are saying G is best), and almost 8 years of paying nothing additional. For me it's been good but I realize that won't work for everyone. I also realize I'm not immortal, so it will eventually need to change :-)
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            Posted by mshupe 6 months, 2 weeks ago
            So what? Based on the absurd claim that you were getting hundreds of calls each month, I tried to offer a useful perspective. If you're such an expert, why this post?
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            • Posted by $ gharkness 6 months, 2 weeks ago
              OK, Mr./Ms. Smarty Pants. Maybe you could pay attention a little better to who you are responding to before you jump down someone's throat.

              Please COPY AND PASTE the "absurd claim" that I am "getting hundreds of calls" each month. If you can find it, I'll apologize. If you CAN'T find it, I'll accept an apology and a retraction.
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            • Posted by $ gharkness 6 months, 1 week ago
              Well I see you haven't been able to find it....SHAME ON YOU. That's because I am not the person who said it.

              Pay attention to what you are saying and who you are saying it to, or your already low credibility will vanish entirely.
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                Posted by mshupe 6 months, 1 week ago
                I've become more captivated by your use of caps when spelling words as a coping mechanism for your linguistic disabilities. What was it you were griping about?
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  • Posted by $ 6 months, 2 weeks ago
    Why is our government allowing people who sound illiterate to harass us with calls and they advertise a benefit to us if we add Humana and other companies to our Medicare program. I've told hundreds of people 'I am not eligible for your program. Why are you selling insurance for elderly people?' Can anyone answer me about what this is?
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    • Posted by mccannon01 6 months, 2 weeks ago
      Maybe the callers ARE basically illiterate and read from a script (barely) after a computer selects your number from a random list. I've tried asking a question and it's like catching a deer in the headlights. I hang up.
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    • Posted by $ 6 months, 2 weeks ago
      And also this supposed food card. I have two friends who only get $800 a month from SS and they can't qualify for this dumb food card. Why are we giving Ukraine $120 Billion dollars and we have people who need food cards...American citizens?
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      • Posted by mccannon01 6 months, 2 weeks ago
        The way I see it those elderly American citizens can't afford to give The Big Guy(s) a cut of the action, so The Big Guy(s) funnel the money through those that can. The Big Guy(s) have robbed the SS Ponzi for all they could and now are going elsewhere to loot.
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    • Posted by $ gharkness 6 months, 2 weeks ago
      Well, DO you want to be protected by the government or do you NOT? I personally do NOT want the government deciding what can be shown to me. Along with about a million other things I'd rather they not do. Like...."protect" me from a virus. All the nonsense about Do Not Call lists is just that. They are about as useful and effective as (being a Texan you should recognize this) tits on a boar hog. No telling, though, how much money we pay every year for the DNC lists that don't work.
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  • Posted by $ allosaur 6 months, 2 weeks ago
    "Hello y' congrat-youse-lations. Ees Publishin' Clearin' 'ouse winner you be. Need check account numero to gib youse two million dollar. Hokay?"
    For about a decade this is a condensed version of a phone call me dino has received three times. Senior citizen me must be on a list.
    I tell the organized crime wetbacks (who all call from a noisy sweatshop) that first I want to see the crew that comes in a van with balloons and an oversized check.
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  • Posted by $ Radio_Randy 6 months, 2 weeks ago
    Medicare calls, from offshore call centers (India), are likely just supplemental insurance companies looking for your business.

    I will admit, however, that the southern drawl I get from Social Security reps (and my credit union) are occasionally hard to decipher.
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  • Posted by LarryHeart 6 months, 2 weeks ago
    While my gasoline and grocery bills have increased by almost 30% Social Security announced they will increase payment by ....tada three whole percent.
    what a country America.
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