Take an aspirin, even an Ibuprofen. And remember, you can always ask to smoke afterward.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GYji3...

Oh, this gives me a headache!

Welcome to The Gulch. Me an old dino was tempted to hunt up a Ray Charles love song but thought better of it.
Romantic love leading to having children affected a "grounding of reality" in my own thinking.
Of course, there's plenty of unstable as well as downright sorry people with kids.
To your question Mr. Spock would say no, though I recall that episode in which Vulcan males become homicidal when the mating madness hits them--that somewhat controlled by a barbaric ritual.