Bless you!
A friend of mine went through an extrication process from SSA. It took about 2-1/2 years of multiple filings and a lot of waiting. Afterwards all he did was to file a tax statement of non-participation/exemption, for lack of better words at present, with the Feds, Subsequently he owed the State nothing as well. He worked within mortgage underwriting for Bank of America at the time....mid-2000's. Originally only Federal employees were required to file tax docs. When the banking system was Federalized...2009?...he became a Fed employee and all his effort went to $#%^!!!
Not long afterward his first daughter was born. About a month after her birth he received a letter from SSA addressed to her, confirming her enrollment in the "program". Denny hit the roof! He had expressly marked and signed her birth record declining enrollment. He told the hospital admin they had better retract and expunge the record or they were going to court. He had piles of docs and records to throw against any potential of defense they may raise and a clear threat of "I'll own your institution if you don't correct the intrusion". His expression may have been a little verbose but conveyed enough legitimate aggression that a lot of heads may roll if they did not capitulate. This would have been a kick-ass case to get to the Supreme Court if for nothing but public awareness.