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Dad is Dying

Posted by $ Abaco 3 years, 8 months ago to Philosophy
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Thought I'd share. It doesn't look like my dad is going to survive his bout with COVID. He's on ventilator, sedated. Not recovering. They are hinting that his lungs may never function without a machine for the rest of his life. So, that's not going to be how he continues on, if he makes it through this. His life has not been a pleasure cruise. It was more a dumpster fire...which to this Objectivist is very sad.

Cycle of life is funny. I'm raising two kids of my own. Trying so very hard to teach them the basic values that make life easy, simple. In my struggles to do that I've started to realize that "I'm the weirdo", as I joked to my son the other day. Now in my 5th decade I've come to realize that most people are drawn to trouble, drama, stupid decisions. I see it all around me and on tv. It's surreal. But, I digress. I spent Sunday visiting with my step mom to lift her spirits. As I started to leave their town in Nevada I stopped at a little riverside park to eat my lunch and take in the natural beauty. The place was empty except for just a few people. As I walked over to the restroom before leaving I walked by a very young couple, the lady was all excited as they both looked at the ring on her finger. What a beautiful place to propose. I looked over and said, "What's going on here!?" Of course they just got engaged and I was the first witness. Their excitement was really beautiful. The young lady was all smiles, and so beautiful. I took a photo for them with their phone before continuing on. These hints, these scenes that remind me of the cycle of life keep showing up around me and I really notice them now. Our lives are so precious.


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  • Posted by kddr22 3 years, 8 months ago
    As AR said for these trying times, "It is not death that wish to avoid, but life that I wish to live."
    Did they try hyperbaric oxygen...?
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  • Posted by Owlsrayne 3 years, 8 months ago
    I"m sorry for your loss. What is most unsettling about the pandemic has caused a brutal politicization against treatments for the virus. Even Dr. Faucy recently dismissed antiviral medications along with high doses of certain of the shelf supplements as a cure instead he has turned to wait for a vaccine. My wife who has been an RN for 40+yrs and myself who has worked in medical records can't understand why politicians and people higher up in the federal medical establishment would rather have people in this country die of Covid19 than healing them.
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    • Posted by $ 3 years, 8 months ago
      You're right on that. It's a mess now. I realized over a decade ago that science was dead in medicine. Not totally dead. But, it's application has become viewed as fringe in medicine more and more. Why? 1-profits and, 2-politics. I've met practitioners who have absolutely no idea what they're doing. They just carry out the practices taught to them by the biggest financial contributors to their medical schools. And no...that's not an exaggeration...
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