In the first half he says women really want equality. Then he says maybe they secretly want men to fight back.

Actually, I don't think my generation wanted 'equality'. We liked it better when things weren't equal and we had the edge on the guys! We got the kid, the car, the bank account, and child support and visitation at our convenience.

One of the side effects of forced equality is authoritarianism.

Explains why Omar and Ocasio-Cortez are so popular in far-left circles. Very forceful personalities. It feels good to see someone sticking it to the Man.
Still, there's a distinction between being assertive and amicable and being unnecessarily dominant and overbearing.