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What would you do? What would John Galt do?

Posted by dbhalling 9 years, 9 months ago to Politics
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You walk into a small beach bar on the ocean and a guy is sitting there. You have met him at this establishment before so you sit down near him and strike up a conversation. This is the sort of bar where patrons generally talk freely amongst each other. The man was in politics years ago in Kansas and occasionally brings up political topics. You know that his opinions are all over the map and have even moved to the pool table in the sand in order to not listen to him before. You try to steer the conversation away from politics, but he is not deterred. Then he says:
1) He is for raising the minimum wage
What would you do?
2) He states that minimum wage will not affect unemployment and the law of supply and demand has been repealed.
What would you do?
3) Then he says Obamacare is great.
WWYD?
4) After explaining that the only areas were the cost of medical has gone down are those the government stayed out of (e.g., Laser correction surgery), he says we are the only advanced nation without nationalized health care.
WWYD?
5) Then he says kathleen sebelius, who is from Kansas, is a wonderful women.
6) Then he calls you a racist, because you state Obama has the same philosophy Stalin, Moa, Hilter, etc.
7) Then he states we should get rid of the Constitution.
WWYD?


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  • Posted by robertmbeard 9 years, 9 months ago
    Great posts. The foolishness has to be confronted. But if you feel you won't be able to control your temper, it is better to walk away. Being firm and even a little heated is fine, so long as you are measured and in control...

    To the specific case above involving the Kansas communist, perhaps the shortest, most effective response would be:

    "My friend, the policies you are promoting have been implemented in the country of Venezuela over the past several years. You should take a vacation there sometime. You would love it there. It's not for me, however."
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    • Posted by $ winterwind 9 years, 9 months ago
      An answer that you might have to explain might get you into a discussion, but is more likely to get you brushed off.
      Remember there are people who don't know anything about anything outside their neighborhood - and like it that way.
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  • Posted by ObjectiveAnalyst 9 years, 9 months ago
    You only have two choices reason with him, if you believe he can be reached with the arguments you and others have presented or walk away.
    "Reason is not automatic. Those who deny it cannot be conquered by it. Do not count on them. Leave them alone." Ayn Rand
    ...Okay, on second thought, you have a third option: Tell him you have never heard such a bunch of balderdash in your life and then walk away.
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  • Posted by wiggys 9 years, 9 months ago
    it is quite obvious if you hang around to answer those question you are a gluten for punishment. John Galt would never consider any verbal interaction with this person.
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  • Posted by $ Thoritsu 9 years, 9 months ago
    I would suggest that rather than changing the greatest nation in the world to be more like the poorer one, if he feels so strongly about these things, he should immigrate to one of the many first world nations that already has them.
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  • Posted by iroseland 9 years, 9 months ago
    there are a few things I have learned over the years.. First if someone really, really wants to die there is pretty close to nothing you can do to stop them. Second, I cannot fix stupid. So, I would have to just walk away..
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  • Posted by ultlead 9 years, 9 months ago
    7. Oh really? And what would you replace the very document that protects all of our freedoms, including your freedom to be ignorant, with?
    6. Racist, oh really? I voted for him originally because McCain made an absurd out of left field choice when he picked Palen who has demonstrated she know how to do nothing more than fan the flames of discord and discontent instead of offering real solutions and bringing people together.
    5. Sebellius demonstrated just how breathtakingly out of touch and incompetent she was by not knowing how to manage a website rollout. She may be a wonderful person, but she is an incompetent manager.
    4. So what, just because all my friends may be jumping off a bridge doesn't mean its the smart thing to do. And just maybe the government doesn't know how to manage anything efficiently. Look at the VA.
    3. Really, based on what conceivable measure.
    2. Well, duh!!!
    1. People should be able to live on the income from 40 hours a week of work. So raise it. The problem isn't minimum wage. The problem is a government that takes more than 60% of earnings in taxes of one form or another, then delivers a lousy return on the take. Congress is made up of incompetent egoists terrified to make meaningful decisions, and interested in telling people what they want to hear, blaming others for the very problems they cause in order to keep the best jobs they've ever had.
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  • Posted by $ jbrenner 9 years, 9 months ago
    Such a person is a lost cause. He/she must be defeated. Place a WIJG Post-It Note on his ass, and walk away.
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    • Posted by eddieh 9 years, 9 months ago
      There are always people who are so closed minded that no amount of reason and logic will penetrate their thick skull. I would say "Excuse me ? did you say something? I left my hearing aid back in my room I'll go and get it. Than I would run and hide
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    • Posted by 9 years, 9 months ago
      Agreed and I am not suggesting purposely finding these people, but when they make these sort of outrageous statements, they get away with them because no one ever say BS.

      What would the founding fathers have done? If more people had pointed out how evil Hitler's ideas were, would it have stopped him?
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      • Posted by $ jbrenner 9 years, 9 months ago
        The founding fathers ... left ... to form a new country.

        Hitler was very good at the aggressive use of force. There were more than enough people who pointed out how evil Hitler's ideas were. They also left.
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        • Posted by khalling 9 years, 9 months ago
          but there were millions of decent germans who cowered when he began to gather steam. I think in a discussion when someone pulls the race card and says to hell with the Constitution in the same breath, it's important to say something. db and I did not agree on originally on tactics. I am frustrated with myself on how I go to great lengths to avoid confrontation face to face. you guys would all laugh if you were at a dinner party or cafe with me. you'd say-this isn't k. I tend to diffuse and change subject, even though they may say something outrageous. After this incident I upgraded to cut-direct, but db makes the argument that it's time to make these people feel uncomfortable when they say outrageous things. Is this how we got to 50% of the citizenry on the Dole? because good people stood aside and did nothing in conversations? In this forum I have been called a racist, a bigot, among other things....I rarely down point. I need to get mad...
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          • Posted by Bobhummel 9 years, 9 months ago
            There were plenty of Germans who chanted
            Ein Volk, Ein Reich,Ein Fuehrer because they believed his complete pile of horse shit. And if you questioned them, they were as self righteous as Vallery Milhous Obama and turned in to the Sturmabteilung - now it is the IRS.
            Cheers.
            OBTW my tactical call sign as a navy fighter pilot was Kraut.
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            • Posted by Zenphamy 9 years, 9 months ago
              What did you fly, which squadron, which carrier?
              Me ATN2 on A7C&E, VA-25, Enterprise and Ticonderoga.
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              • Posted by Bobhummel 9 years, 9 months ago
                VF-161 (F-4Phantoms) USS Midway '78-'81
                1.squadron German Naval Airwing 2 (F-104G Starfighter) as USN exchange pilot '82-'84
                VF-211, VF-124 & VF-302 (F-14 Tomcat) '84-'92 USS Kittyhawk, USS Nimitz.
                It was a long time who in a galaxy far far away.
                Thank you for keeping us in the air with great machines.
                Cheers
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                • Posted by 9 years, 9 months ago
                  Given your experience do you think we really need the F35?
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                  • Posted by Bobhummel 9 years, 9 months ago
                    The F-35 is the logical technological follow on to the F-18E/F Super Hornet, but not necessarily the logical tactical follow on to the Super Hornet. The F-35 is a "low observable" (LO) in radar cross section ( as opposed to very low observable (VLO) aircraft like the B-2. It also has a lot of advanced secret squirrel avionics that can deny the adversary/ enemy the use of the electromagnetic spectrum, allow targeting in all weather conditions with weapons that are pin point accurate and also not detectable by the bad guys ( passively or actively). But it is expensive. This is the usual result of anything that has the label "Joint" Strike Fighter. It is attempting to be all things to all the users - Navy, AF, and Marine Corps.
                    I have been outside the process for almost 20 years. The last systems I was actively involved in were the. F-14D and F-18E/F. They were very successful programs and needed at the time. They were work horses in Iraq and Afghanistan.
                    I will try some contacts and gain some intel to forward to you DB . You can make your own decision.
                    Cheers
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                    • Posted by 9 years, 9 months ago
                      My opinion is that planes are limited by the pilot and these are ego planes.
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                      • Posted by Bobhummel 9 years, 9 months ago
                        It depends on who's ego is sitting in the ejection seat - the taxpayer's or mine or my former squadron mate's son's. I flew the Phantom. It had no gun for air to air combat. They were going to rely on analog technology in missile systems to expand the dog fighting arena. But you can still end up in a knife fight in a phone booth in air to air combat and you need a gun. The Ault Report analyzed our loses in Vietnam Nam and determined that every fighter should ALWAYS have a gun and more than one engine. That had been true ever since ( except for the F-16 which had an aircraft loss rate that exceeded the F-104 in Germany) . Now with the F-35 and; no gun and single engine. Cool stuff in the box, for sure. But if I but my butt in that seat, I want the chance to come home if I do my job, and I need that training and tech edge to do it.
                        Cheers
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          • Posted by $ jbrenner 9 years, 9 months ago
            Well, I have been called some of those things over the last few days, too. Perhaps it is time for me to re-post my request for civility that I posted a few months ago.

            There were plenty of Germans who cowered. The ones who pointed out how evil Hitler's ideas were left if they pointed them out early enough. If they waited too long, they got sent to a concentration camp.

            Regarding public confrontation, privately taking someone aside, just ignoring the situation, or leaving, some of my response would depend on a) whether I was hosting the party, b) he was hosting the party, c) how well I knew the Obama supporter, and d) how much I liked him/her personally before this incident.
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            • Posted by LetsShrug 9 years, 9 months ago
              j! Being gentlemanly is great, but the time has come to stop the silence...it's deadly, literally! What you're suggesting is exactly what most Germans did.... let's learn from them...they have much to teach us. Their civility got them starved in a camp in the end. Polite silence doesn't always have a place at the table....there's too much at stake.. (or steak...but don't tell db cuz he'll take it when things get heated.)
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              • Posted by $ jbrenner 9 years, 9 months ago
                The best one-punch knockout in response to someone similar to the person db described is to quote the John Galt oath. "Fight for this world, in the name of the best within you. You will win when you are ready to pronounce this oath: 'I swear -- by my life and my love of it -- that I will never live for the sake of another man, nor ask another man to live for mine.'"
                I would just quote the oath. The prior sentence was primarily to answer LetsShrug and dbhalling's question about what John Galt would have done.
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            • Posted by richrobinson 9 years, 9 months ago
              Always the gentlemen. I have trouble speaking to a woman who used to work for us. She voted for Obama twice and so did her husband. They are so thick headed you can't have a normal conversation. I guess I am ignoring it as long as I can. Eventually one of them is going to say the wrong thing.
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              • Posted by CircuitGuy 9 years, 9 months ago
                " I have trouble speaking to a woman who used to work for us. She voted for Obama twice and so did her husband."
                If I couldn't speak to Obama voters, I wouldn't know almost anyone. I don't poll people about voting, but I think I know two people who didn't vote for him both times. My wife and I voted for him and went to his fundraisers. That's very different from thinking he's a panacea.

                Politicians get elected through our current two-party system with our current campaign finance system. They're intelligent and ambitious, so they think the exec branch should have more power, so they can do more good. They can't very well condemn the system that put them in power. So we don't get any significant reform. The exec branch keeps getting more power. The gov't keeps slowly getting more intrusive.

                I have not met President Obama, although I have friends who have. I suspect he is a good person. Having a good person in office, though, doesn't seem to stop trend toward an intrusive gov't.
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                • Posted by LetsShrug 9 years, 9 months ago
                  You suspect Obama is a good person. Have you been living underground for the last 6 years? What could POSSIBLY make you suspect this? And you voted for him too. Thanks a lot. WAKE.UP!
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                • Posted by richrobinson 9 years, 9 months ago
                  She still has the Obama stickers on her car. One day I was in our lunch area with the TV on when Obama came on to speak about something. I went to leave and she was walking back cause she heard him speaking. She said she wanted to listen because she enjoyed hearing him speak. I said I can't stand him and she was answering me as I walked away. We have talked briefly about politics before and she and her husband are pure ideologues. They love all Democrats and hate all Republicans. Her husband started talking about global warming one day. I pointed out that Alaska set record cold temps that year. He laughed and said Alaska is supposed to be cold. I can't talk to people that are that closed off and think they are always right. Discussion is impossible.
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                  • Posted by CircuitGuy 9 years, 9 months ago
                    "We have talked briefly about politics before and she and her husband are pure ideologues."
                    Yes. I avoid talking to ideologues of any sort. I don't know too many of them. They can be normal people, but once you get them going on politicians, they carry on about how one politician is evil or a saint. I think most people have a tacit rule about not getting these people going.
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                    • Posted by richrobinson 9 years, 9 months ago
                      I remember when she voted for Clinton. The economy had been improving for some time and shortly after the election a good report came out. She said it was the economy anticipating a good President. What crap.
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                      • Posted by CircuitGuy 9 years, 9 months ago
                        Well actually Clinton _was_ part of that boom b/c it was an Internet boom, and his VP invented the Internet. J/K.
                        Yes. The recession of '91 helped Clinton get elected on "it's the economy stupid." It helped him get re-elected. It feels like history repeats itself. I agree Bush and Clinton had nothing to do with the economic cycle.
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                        • Posted by richrobinson 9 years, 9 months ago
                          Her comment came weeks after the election. I am not a fan of Clinton but he did find a way to work with a Republican House and Senate. Obama refuses to try. He wants his stuff passed without argument and that makes him dangerous. Did anyone ever figure out why Gore said he invented the Internet? He should have won easily. What a tool.
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                          • Posted by CircuitGuy 9 years, 9 months ago
                            "I am not a fan of Clinton but he did find a way to work with a Republican House and Senate. Obama refuses to try"
                            I sensed Clinton battled the "firebrand" Contract-with-America Republicans the same as President Obama battles the Republicans today. I don't follow it closely enough to know who's doing a better job of bipartisanship. Esp today I sense both sides want a balanced budget without cutting military, SS, or Medicare or raising taxes, in other words not really changing things. The ones who do talk about deficits are sanctimonious about wanting to cut progs they never supported.

                            "Did anyone ever figu're out why Gore said he invented the Internet?"
                            He was talking about funding DARPAnet or something, and it came out wrong.

                            "He should have won easily. "
                            Yes, based on my theory that people credit the president with the economy. Instead it was too close to call and the Supreme Court just selected someone.
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                            • Posted by richrobinson 9 years, 9 months ago
                              Clinton and Gingrich worked out a Welfare reform law that by most accounts I have read worked extremely well. Obama, illegally, gutted it. Obama has shown no interest in working with House Republicans. I believe it to be part arrogance and part inexperience. The Supreme Court didn't select Bush. The Florida Supreme Court illegally ruled that the vote counting could go on in direct violation of Florida law. FOIA requests and future counts verified that Bush did in fact win. On a side note. I thought Al Gore was quite gracious when he conceded. It had to be the most difficult thing he ever had to do. Limbaugh and other right wing commentators made fun of him and I didn't like that. I found it quite childish.
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                              • Posted by $ jbrenner 9 years, 9 months ago
                                Al Gore was not at all gracious in defeat. Notice that he didn't call for a full recount in Florida. He only called for a recount in those counties that were likely to benefit him.
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                                • Posted by richrobinson 9 years, 9 months ago
                                  The recount mess was all his fault. I do think that he was planning on the Presidency since he was a sperm. I am sure his lawyers convinced him they could win that battle. Once it was obvious he could not he stepped aside. I do think from time to time what things would have been like if he won...
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            • Posted by $ jbrenner 9 years, 9 months ago
              In a public place like the one you described, paying your bill and leaving probably was the correct choice.
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              • Posted by $ winterwind 9 years, 9 months ago
                I have the JG quote shirt that says
                "The evil of the world is made possible by nothing but the sanction you give it."
                and I used to have a Latin quote in my office that translated to "He who keeps silent, consents."
                We cannot allow them to silence us while we go along with the pretense that they are not naked.
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                • Posted by $ jbrenner 9 years, 9 months ago
                  You must be ready to go for the one-punch knockout. The JG quote on your shirt should do it. If you are not able to come with that sort of intensity, leaving is the correct choice, and then you have to do your homework to be ready for the next such encounter. That is what this thread was all about.
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          • Posted by Robbie53024 9 years, 9 months ago
            No. You're a living example of my theory as to why liberty ultimately and seemingly always, fails. Those who believe in liberty just want to be left alone, and want to leave others alone. Those who believe in collectivism, socialism always seek out power to enact their "utopian dream" on others, whether those others want it or not. Thus, we have people who do not seek to impose their views on others (the liberty lovers) and those who actively seek to impose their will on others. Who gets power? Who ultimately takes control? The answer is obvious and supported in history.

            We are doomed to again collapse and be ruled. Alas, this time, it may be forever as we have created the technology by which we can be subjugated and controlled by the very few, from very far away. Prior to the mid 20th century, the populace and the governments were relatively equal in their power and it was merely a matter of numbers. Now, numbers are nearly immaterial.

            Yes, I'm in a particularly dour mood today.
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    • Posted by LetsShrug 9 years, 9 months ago
      No...db should not touch his ass. Maybe next time db can slap a post-it on the bar in front of the idiot as db grabs his beer and walks to somewhere away from the Sebelius lover. (second though...I bet db doesn't have any post-its. :( )
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      • Posted by khalling 9 years, 9 months ago
        there was no meat on that day...
        they guy is 88 yrs old. I was worried there would be a heart attack in front of me...which might be poetic justice, but as I said, in person I am not confrontational. ;)
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        • Posted by LetsShrug 9 years, 9 months ago
          I was going to ask about the meat. lol Non confrontational? Really? That makes me sad. :(
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          • Posted by khalling 9 years, 9 months ago
            I'm not sure arguments are won that way. I cannot change their mind if I am in their face. However, when they are in my face, the goal is to shame or guilt me into cowardice...I admit it...trying to work through that.
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            • Posted by $ jbrenner 9 years, 9 months ago
              Winning such arguments is best done by employing unconventional means, by surprising them. If you can spontaneously come up with something that is sufficiently suprising to win the argument with one statement or action, then that is effective. Such a situation requires the equivalent of a one-punch knockout.
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              • Posted by CircuitGuy 9 years, 9 months ago
                Winning? The only way to win is for him to go home look up the facts, hear some news story a year later, look up more facts, start to question things, and come to a conclusion on his own.
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                • Posted by 9 years, 9 months ago
                  I am not suggesting these discussion are winnable (the guy things you can repeal the law of supply and demand, its like legislating against gravity), but I think it is important these people know that many of us know they are spewing slavery, theft, and death.
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                  • Posted by CircuitGuy 9 years, 9 months ago
                    "I think it is important these people know that many of us know they are spewing slavery, theft, and death"
                    Do you think they know? If they know, then there is the question of whether to tell them you know too. If they don't know, it's impossible to tell them that you know.
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                    • Posted by 9 years, 9 months ago
                      CG how can you say that and say that you voted for Obama even helped him with fundraising.
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                      • Posted by CircuitGuy 9 years, 9 months ago
                        "CG how can you say that and say that you voted for Obama even helped him with fundraising."
                        I was saying if they don't think they're for a bankrupt ideology, then telling them you know won't affect them. If they know it's a bankrupt ideology but think they're tricking people, then it makes a difference if you tell them you see through it.

                        If someone thinks he can repeal the laws of supply and demand, my talking to him probably won't have any impact.
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                • Posted by $ jbrenner 9 years, 9 months ago
                  Coming to their own conclusion is key, but the one-punch knockout with the John Galt oath might win.
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                  • Posted by LetsShrug 9 years, 9 months ago
                    Okay....how about the oath with db's chaser of "... I am an advocate for Freedom, while YOU are an advocate for slavery and theft ."
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                    • Posted by Robbie53024 9 years, 9 months ago
                      They don't recognize it as slavery or theft. It's only "fair" that those who make more pay more. It's only "fair" that those who have less get to have some of what those who have more, have. Universal healthcare must be a right, since we all want it and it's not "fair" that some who have wealth can have it while those with less wealth must be satisfied with less.

                      Those are not logical stances and cannot be won with logic. They are based on emotion, and must be won with counter emotional arguments. You have to bring it directly to them. For instance, if they own a home with a spare bedroom, they should be forced to provide that bedroom to a homeless person only out of "fairness." If they throw away food, they should be forced to have a homeless person sit with them at the table and share the meal out of "fairness." If they have more than 7 sets of clothing in their closet, they should be forced to invite the homeless in to select from their wardrobe to clothe themselves as the only "fair" thing to do.
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              • Posted by IndianaGary 9 years, 9 months ago
                This is something that Rand was really good at. I was always amazed at how she could come up with a one-liner that put the opponent in his or her place. She could then go on to logically eviscerate the opponent by backing up her original statement.
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            • Posted by LetsShrug 9 years, 9 months ago
              You can get mad and remain calm and rational in a discussion. But changing the subject or avoiding the debate won't win anything. Weird...we both used the word cowardice at the same time.
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              • Posted by LetsShrug 9 years, 9 months ago
                As I was typing this the door bell rang and it was the Bob Worsley guy again with a girl in tow (both with clip boards)... (also I might mention I was annoyed that the door bell rang because my husband is trying to get some sleep before work and the dogs went into orbit barking!), so once he said Bob Worlsey I said, "I won't vote for someone who voted for Common Core." He said, "It's not that he voted FOR Common Core it's that he voted against repealing it." I said, "Why didn't he vote to repeal it?" He said, "Because we need a set of standards and we're 48th in the country." (Which I need to check but I don't think that's true...) I said, "Then we fix that ourselves, we don't get the federal government involved." And he said, "But we haven't been fixing it." I said, "Why not?? When you bring in the government to teach kids how to think that never works out well, check history." (The girl looked at me like I had three heads)... He said, "It's not that teacher teach kids how to think (?!)--" I interrupted here and said, "The teachers teach them how to think to pass THEIR tests. Bob voted for Common Core I won't vote for HIM, republican or not." They thanked me and left.
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                • Posted by 9 years, 9 months ago
                  My point exactly. It is important to let these people know that not everyone agrees with them and we will not go to gas chambers willingly.
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                  • Posted by LetsShrug 9 years, 9 months ago
                    I'm not shutting up and I'm not going to a gas chamber. Or a FEMA camp...or the gulag...
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                    • Posted by $ winterwind 9 years, 9 months ago
                      WARNING: LONG POST

                      That's why I ended every speech I ever gave - and some letters - by saying "Never surrender." Never, never - in what seem to be small interactions, to in-your-face arguments. Never.

                      Having said that, remember that the person working the hardest in the argument will probably lose. Anyone who's argued with a child knows this - they have lots of energy and can think up a zillion reasons why they should be able to have a cookie before dinner. You work harder than he does if you try to counter every single reason with an argument. Pick one or two things to say, and keep saying them, and don't say anything else: "no." and "not a chance". They quit, eventually. This works on everyone.

                      Thirdly, remember that a person can't be argued out of something he wasn't argued into. That is, one cannot overcome emotion with logic. You're not going to "win" this argument. Your facts will have no impact on him, and your well-crafted replies or statements are wasted on him.
                      All you can do is to let him know that you, the person standing right in front of him, will never surrender.

                      so, first, I would not try to steer the conversation away from politics. He's too determined to go with you.
                      At the first point, I would pick my "one thing to say" , which is usually on the order of "You're wrong, and I have no intention of supporting it, financially or otherwise." Sometimes I add "and you can't make me."
                      It works against 2, 3, and 4,
                      Re 5 "I do not know the woman/lady/person."
                      Re 6, I might point out that he doesn't know me well enough to be able to make that judgement. That one is hard to keep saying, but it can be done.
                      Re 7 Go back to "You're wrong, and [get right into his face] you'll have to kill me to do it."
                      STARE
                      HIM
                      DOWN
                      Never Surrender.


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                      • Posted by IndianaGary 9 years, 9 months ago
                        Why I've always loved "Galaxy Quest" as loony as it was. The mantra was "Never Give Up. Never Surrender" and it will never forget it.
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                        • Posted by Hiraghm 9 years, 8 months ago
                          Oh there's a LOT I like about Galaxy Quest. A very underrated movie, IMO.

                          The scene where Taggart discovers he's a joke... the scene where he decides to be the character he played at being. Sigourney Weaver (looking surprisingly beautiful; can't believe I said that about a communist) giving such expressive looks as she observes his evolution.
                          Alan Rickman's evolution when he loses his one fan.
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            • Posted by $ jbrenner 9 years, 9 months ago
              Figuring out how to do a one-punch knockout in that sort of situation is something that I am going to need to think thoroughly about before I get into a similar situation. I have a similar situation to db every two or three years.
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              • Posted by 9 years, 9 months ago
                I am not suggesting anyone has duty. I am suggesting that it is not always right to just walk away or play nice as someone is suggest theft and slavery. Pick you times when it is right for you, but don't always back away.
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                • Posted by $ jbrenner 9 years, 9 months ago
                  There will certainly be times where confrontation is worthwhile. This may have been one of those times. We need to be constantly ready for such opportunities.
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            • Posted by $ winterwind 9 years, 9 months ago
              The interaction was not ever going to lead to an argument. Arguments have codes of conduct [no biting] and end with someone capitulating to the other person's reasoned points.
              The guy gave his conclusions first - a sure sign that he was hoping for a fight, a surrender, or an agreement.
              I know it's difficult for thinking reasonable people to believe this, but sometimes we run into non-thinking, non-reasonable people.
              If you can't have a decent argument, you can always reduce them to blustering impotent nonsense by making fun of them. It's not nice, but neither are they.
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  • Posted by Technocracy 9 years, 9 months ago
    First thing I would do is say...

    "Since you have decided to lecture you are buying the beer"

    Drink beer so long as he buys while he babbles.

    When he finally stops, stare him intently in the eyes and say one of two things......

    1. Amazing that amount of bullshit hasn't turned your eyes brown yet.

    or

    2. You are so full of shit your eyes are brown.

    Then walk away
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  • Posted by tdechaine 9 years, 9 months ago
    Put some truth serum in his drink.
    Or by the 2nd question, ask him if he would truly like to debate the issues on facts or not?
    Then when he deviates from the facts - or worse, denies there are facts - and doesn't care, leave with good cause.
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    Posted by BambiB 9 years, 9 months ago
    You guys already know what I would do.

    khaling would agree with him on #5 because one may not speak ill of a wimmin.
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    • Posted by LetsShrug 9 years, 9 months ago
      All women aren't the same. Are you mentally incapable of that concept? There is no reason to be an ass to kh. Grow up.
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      • Posted by Hiraghm 9 years, 9 months ago
        "Stand them on their heads and they all look like sisters"...

        A saying from the bad old days when women still wore dresses and skirts....

        (isn't it funny how guys who dress like girls are called "transvestites" but women dress like men every day and nobody thinks anything of it?)
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      • Posted by BambiB 9 years, 9 months ago
        Are your ready to admit that the majority of women are voting in such a way as to destroy America?

        No?

        Then you're as bad as the rest.
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        • Posted by LetsShrug 9 years, 9 months ago
          I've admitted you have a point like a dozen times! Crimony! I'm not giving up my right to vote and you're not taking it either so grow up, be a man and stop yer whining already. Suck it up, shake it off and figure out a better way to get people (PEOPLE!) to use reason instead of emotions when making decisions. This sissy song of yours has grown thin and reeks of cry baby and it is accomplishing nothing. Like I told my boys when they were 3 and trying to throw a hissy and get their own way, "Go in your room and cry and shut the door, I don't want to hear it. Don't come out until you can behave like a big boy." The door is down hall, Bambib... And don't you dare slam it.
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            Posted by BambiB 9 years, 9 months ago
            So you're agreeing that women are the main problem facing America? That their voting pattern is what is destroying America? Be clear now: This Country would NOT be facing a financial crisis if women did not have the vote? You agree to all of that?
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            • Posted by $ Mimi 9 years, 9 months ago
              I don’t have to vote. It’s all become a big blur anyway. But, I won’t give up my right to vote. It’s equal to the right to owning a gun to protect myself from ‘tyranny’. Take away my vote and perhaps next you will want to take a way that gun or maybe my right to drive a car. Perhaps women will get a curfew? Skip looking at Venus in winter, eh? Who would stop you from abusing that power? Not us women. We wouldn’t have a vote, right?
              Men aren’t all that great with money either. We are all only human. There were as many three mini crashes in the late-nineteenth century, decades before women got the vote.

              You keep talking about what women shouldn’t do or can’t do. but you know...I never read any story where GI’s fighting in WW2 complained about how their B-17’s were put together badly by a bunch of dumb broads.
              We got your back, Bambib. Shut the hell up, already.
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              • Posted by Hiraghm 9 years, 8 months ago
                Maybe the ones that were put together badly by a bunch of dumb broads never made it home?

                More likely, it's because the B-17s were put together by real women, who loved the men fighting overseas, even the ones they didn't know, loved them for being men, and were extra careful and attentive in their work to make sure those B-17s miraculously brought lovers, fathers, sons home again. Which they did.


                "It is impossible for a man to love his wife wholeheartedly without loving all women somewhat." - Robert A. Heinlein

                I've discovered this to be true (even having no wife), and I'd be willing to bet the converse is true for women, as well.
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                Posted by BambiB 9 years, 9 months ago
                The only thing standing between you and economic freedom in America is the voting pattern of women.

                Come on, Mimi. Admit it. The majority of women are perfectly happy to steal money from the producing class using government to siphon it into their own pockets or to build welfare systems for their own benefit.

                Why not admit it?
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                • Posted by $ Mimi 9 years, 9 months ago
                  You are asking me to put life and liberty on the line, submit to servitude, for the sake of economic freedom? Really?
                  Come on, Bambib.

                  What role do you see women playing IF you had your way and they weren’t allowed to vote?
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            • Posted by LetsShrug 9 years, 9 months ago
              Seriously. What is wrong with you?
              Admit you're an over sized cry baby? That you don't behave like a man? That you have a negative fixation with women? Do you, huh, do you?
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                Posted by BambiB 9 years, 9 months ago
                Somehow I knew that you wouldn't engage on a factual level. Start with Lott's paper on how women's suffrage affected the size and scope of government (and drove debt). If you can. Okay, maybe you're just too fricking stupid to actually read a paper and understand it. Or maybe you CAN read the paper and understand some of it, but you don't have a counter-arguement that makes sense - even to you - so all you have is insulting behavior. No facts. Just emotional upset that it's women who have screwed America.

                Well, come on. Are you RATIONAL? Or just EMOTIONAL? Can you THINK? Or only FEEL? Are you a HUMAN? Or just an ANIMAL?

                Show me what you've got, because at the moment, all I see is an emotional, feeling, animal. Is there anything more to you? It's a serious question. Is there?

                Show me. Show me you can THINK, not just emote.

                Oh hell. Why do I bother? You're not going to wake up.
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                • Posted by 9 years, 9 months ago
                  Blah blah balh, you never have provides any facts
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                  • Posted by MiJo 9 years, 9 months ago
                    Didn't bambib just post a reference to a paper by John Lott? The one about women voting for deficits?

                    It looks like bambi is right and you just don't have any facts on your side. Why did you say babmbi never provides any facts? That isn't true.
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                  • Posted by Hiraghm 9 years, 9 months ago
                    I wish I could find it, I've tried for almost 30 years and can't, but...

                    There was a study cited in a science magazine in the mid-80s. The study examined how men and women viewed justice.

                    The women in the study tended to view justice as doing the least harm to the least number, while the men viewed it as punishing bad behavior and rewarding good behavior.

                    The conclusion was that these views were a result of our early roles; men went out on the hunt where making mistakes gets people killed, whereas women were left as the only fully able-bodied to run a camp full of the elderly, the crippled and children. Letting interpersonal situations get out of hand would result in harm, there.

                    Assuming this study is accurate in their findings and conclusions, it makes sense that as women gain influence in society and government, the nature of the society and government would change.
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        • Posted by $ jbrenner 9 years, 9 months ago
          I am willing to admit that, but that doesn't mean that you have to disrespect those women here in the Gulch who are not part of that majority you describe.
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          • Posted by BambiB 9 years, 9 months ago
            Didn't start out that way.

            It started out with me presenting facts that the women here did not want to hear. They started the name-calling and refused to engage ON THE FACTS.

            The more they deny the obvious, engage in personal attacks and refuse to engage on a FACTUAL basis, the more it becomes clear that they're dishonest or mentally challenged. In either case, their opinions become meaningless.

            You'll note that NOT ONE has engaged on the facts in the John Lott paper on the effects of women voting. The problem is the women here don't LIKE the facts and they cannot DISPUTE the facts. All that's left to them is name-calling fits. If they receive insults in response to their insults, it's no less than they deserve.

            If they would engage on facts, they'd find my posts will lose their barbs - but the facts can be pretty thorny things all by themselves… especially when none support your sacred beliefs.

            For the record, I assert that our economic system did not go haywire (begin its plunge into irrecoverable debt) until women began to vote, that women voting was the primary and proximate cause of the aggregation of debt and the female vote is responsible for the vast majority of the unfunded mandates (mostly social welfare programs) which are estimated to be on the order of $200 trillion over the next 50 years. I further assert that if women did NOT vote, that most of our current $17+ trillion dollar debt would not exist.

            In short, women in America act like they think government spending is a "no limit" credit card that never has to be paid off and when this is mentioned they don't want to talk about it.

            It is the majority of women (and a minority of men), through this financial evisceration of the government (while demanding that it grow to meet their every whim) who are destroying America.

            Anyone have FACTS to the contrary? Let 'er rip.
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            • Posted by $ Mimi 9 years, 9 months ago
              You have ben pushing the Lott paper maybe six months? Do you want to discuss it? That would be fine. The problem is you don’t stay within the perimeters of his paper. Does he conclude or otherwise indicate that the solution is to take the vote away from women? I don’t think so. But, that’s the argument you put forth. You don’t respond to questions ask of you. If you reason and think that the solution is to take away the vote from women, then please...tell me what the landscape will look like after such actions. What role would women play? I’m half-tempted to write Lott and ask him what conclusion he thinks an audience should have taken away from his findings, because your interpretation isn’t very constructive or likely to provide sound results.
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              • Posted by 9 years, 9 months ago
                I cannot speak to every case, but I looked at Woodrow Wilson's election 1912. He won by a landslide. Taking away the vote from women (note Women's suffrage was not until 1920) would have made not difference. If he had not won it would have been Teddy Roosevelt, either way we have a progressive. On that note TDR won before women's suffrage and FDR won four elections and most of them were not close. The facts just do not support that women are the reason for the regressivist movement in the US.
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            • Posted by $ jbrenner 9 years, 9 months ago
              Women getting the right to vote happened in the same era as the cause of the decline of America, but it wasn't the cause. "Progressivism", as embodied by the Roosevelts and Woodrow Wilson, along with the establishment of the Federal Reserve system and the income tax, were the causes. Correlation does not imply causation.
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