Wrongful birth?

Posted by $ jbrenner 8 years, 2 months ago to The Gulch: General
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I will readily admit that I have conflicting thoughts on this one, and am curious to hear others' thoughts.
SOURCE URL: http://wmmbam.iheart.com/articles/national-news-104668/a-mom-is-suing-over-her-14346380/


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    Posted by edweaver 8 years, 2 months ago
    If she was so concerned, wasn't it her responsibility to make sure the test was performed? Sounds like the blame game to me. Something bad happened to me, now let's find someone to blame it on instead of taking personal responsibility. My 2 cents.
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    • Posted by $ Abaco 8 years, 2 months ago
      Truth be told...I doubt she could have gotten the test. She thought it was a substantial risk. The doctor didn't. She was right. The doctor was wrong. But...I'm assuming there is a test for CF. Maybe there isn't?

      There's a test for a genetic abnormality (if my memory serves me right it's MTHFR). They should test for it. They don't. Lots of kids are screwed up because of the test not being done, and a lot of doctors being clueless. And, its effects are avoidable after birth if the baby's health is managed appropriately.

      This is all a weird area of medical ethics...

      Edited to add that this lady will never get a dime.
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      • Posted by edweaver 8 years, 2 months ago
        I just looked both of them up. You are correct on MTHFR and it doesn't seem there is a test for CP. Seem to me they should be able to get any test they want even if it means paying for it themselves.
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  • Posted by $ blarman 8 years, 2 months ago
    "I didn't get the outcome I wanted so it's someone else's fault." Just ridiculous. I'd fully support this woman's decision to get her tubes tied.

    And she's certainly welcome to put the child up for adoption. Every child deserves and needs parents who love them - not who look at them as a hardship or anchor.
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    • Posted by $ Abaco 8 years, 2 months ago
      Are you implying that those are mutually exclusive?

      Maybe she's filing a suit because she loves the kid and thinks the money will help her take better care of the child. (It will)
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      • Posted by $ blarman 8 years, 2 months ago
        I've observed hundreds of children from 0 to 18 on a weekly basis over the past twenty years and seen quite a bit - from those who had everything to those who had nothing. I've seen really good kids who came from parents who were doctors and dentists and really bad kids spoiled by their rich parents. I've seen really good kids whose parents worked four jobs just to try to stay afloat and I've seen really bad kids who did nothing but envy what they didn't have because their parents blamed their lack of success on society. So the correlation of money to well-being isn't particularly apparent or justified for me. Their parents' attitudes, however, have been strongly correlated to their successes. The parents who took time every day just to eat dinner with their kids, help them with homework, make them do chores, teach them basic respect for other people... Those were the kids I knew I could depend on.

        Given that experience, I have to cast a significantly jaundiced eye toward this woman and her purported motives. The saddest part is that I can identify kids (like this woman's) who know their parents don't want them or don't give them the attention they crave. Those are the ones who act out in school (or anywhere else). They're the ones who are highly susceptible to peer pressure. Those are the ones who end up becoming teenage parents, high school dropouts, and gang members.
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        • Posted by $ Abaco 8 years, 2 months ago
          If a child has an illness like CF it takes money to treat them. You can't get treated for free. That is what I was talking about.

          So far, my son's disability has cost me about $900k over the past decade, from my own pocket. No...even under Obamacare nothing's free.
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          • Posted by $ blarman 8 years, 2 months ago
            I applaud you for your care and sacrifice for your son. Those are testaments to exactly the kind of love a child needs.

            One slight difference I see between your example and that of the subject of the article, is whose money would be used. If the woman wins and has all those medical costs paid for by others, has she really risen to the same level of love and sacrifice you have?

            Money is a tool and its use can be an indicator of investment, but I don't think anyone would disagree that it is easier to spend someone else's money than our own.
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            • Posted by $ Abaco 8 years, 2 months ago
              Very interesting. "If the woman wins and has all those medical costs paid for by others, has she really risen to the same level of love and sacrifice you have?" Honestly?...I think so. Money can't reduce the pain felt by having a disabled child. But, if a person is disabled (especially in the cases of neurological disorders) due to some medical negligence, and we don't allow for liability on the part of the medical professional (trust me...we almost never do) we have a big, big mess on our hands. And, in short, that's what we have in America now.

              There was a lovely, young lady at my college who had CF. She was bright, beautiful...but likely dead long ago, now. I think of her every time I hear of CF.
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              • Posted by $ blarman 8 years, 2 months ago
                This isn't a case of medical negligence resulting in liability on the part of a medical professional, however. In such a case, I would agree with you that the liability would be causal and determined based on a court decision with entitlement to reparations.

                This is a case where the woman wanted to create liability where none existed. The fault of the disability was not the medical professional's. To make them pay for such is to invent causal liability where none previously existed. That is a very dangerous road for society in general and one I absolutely oppose.

                However, that's not what is at the heart of the matter anyway. The real complaint this woman is making is that she is only willing to take on the responsibilities of being a parent if it fits into her preconceived (no pun intended) notions - which is that of the care of a normal child with no birth defects or unforeseen costs. She wasn't interested in becoming a parent in anything less than ideal circumstances. She is attempting to blame the medical techs for not being able to opt out of becoming a parent.
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                • Posted by $ Abaco 8 years, 2 months ago
                  But, if she were only willing to take on the responsibilities of raising a healthy kid she'd put the kid up for adoption, right? I don't come to the conclusion that she doesn't want the child in reading this story (the opposite). And, in America, she has a right to opt out of the pregnancy if the conditions don't meet her desires. I may personally have problems with the morals of that. But...what am I missing here?... Maybe I should read the story again...

                  OK, I just read it again. I think she has a simple, deductive argument here. However, she thinks winning the lawsuit will result in a happier childhood for the kid. Since she filed it 4 years ago, I'm not sure that's the case. I'm not convinced this is just a story about a bad mother. I also don't think she'll be awarded anything.

                  Sorry to beat a dead horse. This is a topic close to my heart.
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                  • Posted by $ blarman 8 years, 2 months ago
                    I understand. I have ten kids - one of whom died of a heart defect. #2 has Type I Diabetes and juvenile arthritis. But I don't love my kids any less for not being what I expect them to be, nor do I waste my time blaming others for my challenges (or theirs). That's what I see in this woman: someone too busy wanting to blame life for being life to just buckle down and live. Stuff happens. You can either waste your days crying foul or you can deal with it and move on.
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        • Posted by $ MichaelAarethun 8 years, 2 months ago
          Funnily enough those are the ones that join the military to see some order, some discipline, some rules in their life. Only to find the most rule bound part of society belongs to a society which has no rules, not ethics, no standards, no values. So we hide behind the uniforms until one day we are forced to joint he majority.

          What a bring down, let down, that is.
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  • Posted by term2 8 years, 2 months ago
    $14 million? Who is supposed to pay that? The rest of us who had nothing to do with her daughters plight. That cant be right. If she is going to sue it should be against a PERSON, but not against some amorphous hospital or medical system that probably knew nothing about it.
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    • Posted by $ jlc 8 years, 2 months ago
      This is the core of the issue. If she is due damages, then it is from people whose medical aid to her was egregiously flawed. The article states that she is suing her 'medical practitioners', so it is not quite amorphous - though I agree with term2 that it should specify 'who is responsible for the wrongdoing'.

      I think that this specific case is just the mother trying to grab some bucks, but that the overall situation deserves looking at. I have talked to many people who have been 'herded' into making a particular medical decision by the doctor simply not telling them of alternatives. If they trust the doctor, they trust that they have been given all of the choices available (not just all the worst choices plus the one cherry-picked good choice that the doctor prefers).

      Yes, it is the responsibility of the individual to find out what is going on and make the decision, but we rely on the presence of experts to make our society plausible. A brilliant physicist may not have a clue about medicine; he relies on his doctor to present him with a reasoned set of alternatives, the same way the doctor relies on the physicist to do physics.

      We have often discussed how terrible it is for schools to teach Global Warming and Socialism as if there were no viable alternatives. Similarly, a doctor has to present all of the options he does not consider actually dangerous to his patient. Many doctors do not do this.

      Jan
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      • Posted by term2 8 years, 2 months ago
        One other thing- in this day and age of liability, I find a lot of doctors are hesitant to offer advice for fear it turns out that it was wrong years later and they get sued.
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      • Posted by term2 8 years, 2 months ago
        Unfortunately, not all doctors are the same, and some might just be less up to speed on things or they innocently just dont know. If we expect 100% performance out of every doctor, soon there will be no more doctors as it wont be worth the risk to take on a patient. Its up to us as individuals to evaluate what a given doctor says (compare with other doctors , internet info, and other sources) before we blindly take their advice. For example, I have a family doctor I go to for most things, but when it comes to arthritis things like joint replacement, I drive 5 hours to Mayo clinic. I ask a lot of questions, look on the internet sites to see what is said there, and THEN come to some conclusion and take action.
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        • Posted by $ jlc 8 years, 2 months ago
          Line you, term2, when I go to the doctor, I almost always have a theory as to 'what is wrong' and a set of ideas 'what should be done about it'. But I am a biomed geek, so I do not expect other people to be as excited about looking this stuff up.

          One of the problems with the medical profession is that they have gone to a lot of trouble to heap too much onto the doctor. For example, when I studied Medical Technology, we were taught how to diagnose (certain) diseases from laboratory results; we are unfortunately forbidden by law from doing this! The doctors do not have time to learn every new lab test (/radiology procedure/pharmaceutical) but they have boxed themselves into a situation where other medical professions are forbidden to take some of the load off their shoulders. This system needs revision.

          The discussion of malpractice suits is another topic altogether...

          Jan
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          • Posted by Mamaemma 8 years, 2 months ago
            There's actually an old saying, attributed, I think, to the man who started Johns Hopkins. It says, if the doctor will listen long enough, the patient will tell him what's wrong. And if the doctor will just be quiet and listen a little longer, the patient will tell him how to fix it!
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  • Posted by jabuttrick 8 years, 2 months ago
    So-called "wrongful birth" cases started being brought many years ago. Most of them involved plaintiffs who had undergone botched vasectomies followed by unwanted pregnancies. These were, in effect, medical malpractice cases. Sometimes the doctors argued the plaintiffs should have mitigated their damages by having abortions. Sometimes the doctors argued that there were no damages because having a child is a benefit not a detriment. In most states these suits cannot be brought now because either by statute or case law they are prohibited. Montana is apparently not one of those states or the Montana law has been narrowly construed so as to allow this case where the claim focuses on the medical condition of the child.
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  • Posted by richrobinson 8 years, 2 months ago
    We should start a list of the first name that pops in to your head when you read wrongful birth. Seems like another case of someone not able to take responsibility for a mistake. Had she followed up properly maybe all the tests would have been performed. This is going to be a heartbreaking case. I can't imagine talking about a child that is alive and wishing you had aborted it.
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    • Posted by freedomforall 8 years, 2 months ago
      Wrongful births.
      First things I think of, Abe Lincoln, Joseph Stalin, Adolph Hitler, Pol Pot.
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      • Posted by $ 8 years, 2 months ago
        I am not a fan of Abe Lincoln either, but he doesn't belong in a category with Stalin, Hitler, Mao, or Pol Pot.
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        • Posted by freedomforall 8 years, 2 months ago
          1860-1865: 600,000 American's lives lost, half the country in ruins,no Americans safe from Lincoln's habit of political revenge, and half the country with no voice in the government that consistently violated their rights and looted their production. If there was any difference between Lincoln and the others listed, it was because of resistance by other Americans and a constitution that restricted Lincoln's madness.
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          • Posted by $ 8 years, 2 months ago
            Lincoln infringed on the rights of every Confederate with the goal of making liberty possible for those who had no such rights. Lincoln did have some redeeming qualities, unlike the others, but I do acknowledge that he trampled the rights of many.
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            • Posted by freedomforall 8 years, 2 months ago
              Lincoln infringed on every American's rights in order to reward the people who elected him with corporate welfare. To pay for it he intentionally caused a war that killed 600,000, and destroyed the only impediment to massive federal power (states rights). He destroyed the free country that he claimed to want to save. Lincoln was a masterful lying looting con-man. (and I respect your right to disagree, jb;^)
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              • Posted by $ CBJ 8 years, 2 months ago
                Lincoln infringed on every American's rights? Does that include the rights of the 3.5 million slaves in the South? (Or don't they count because they weren't American citizens?)
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                • Posted by freedomforall 8 years, 2 months ago
                  Slavery has always been disgusting, but Lincoln only used it as an excuse for his actions. His writings and speeches prior to war show Lincoln wasn't interested in the plight of the slave. Lincoln has been made into a saint for propaganda reasons. Don't take my word for it. Read the well researched writings of Professor Thomas DiLorenzo. There are also some presentations he gave on youtube that are compelling, too.
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                  • Posted by $ MichaelAarethun 8 years, 2 months ago
                    ah the patriots for hire are back. send me $20 send me $10 I'll send you the truth....We're the suckular 700 club of politics. what a crock. Still waiting to hear what have they actually done .....14th amendment wasn't it. Always a finger in someone elses' cookie jar and that's my take on Dee Low rentso
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                    • Posted by freedomforall 8 years, 2 months ago
                      I have asked you before to give a specific source for your opinion against DiLorenzo. Would you mind saying what the source of this is, please? I have not seen anything to disprove DiLorenzo's research on Lincoln as published in his books. You seem to be saying here that he is taking money for his writing. Well, that is what authors do, including quite a few good authors here in the Gulch.
                      Spill it, Michael ;^)
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              • Posted by Bethesda-gal 8 years, 2 months ago
                Ok, your antipathy - to put it mildly - towards Lincoln is clear. But then what is / would have been your solution to slavery ??
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                • Posted by freedomforall 8 years, 2 months ago
                  My solution for slavery is irrelevant to Lincoln's crimes because Lincoln's goal had nothing to do with slavery. However, history of slavery shows that it was already barely at break even at the time of the war and it would have died due to economics (as it did elsewhere) without war and without all the long lasting negative effects of Lincoln's war on liberty and free markets.
                  Lincoln's action toward slavery, the Emancipation Proclamation, was a tactical action of war and it did not free anyone because it only had effect where Lincoln had no authority at the time. Lincoln has been deified by historians writing to eradicate Lincoln's real actions that caused the war. Read the well researched writings of Professor Thomas DiLorenzo. There are also some presentations he gave on youtube that are compelling, too.
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            • Posted by blackswan 8 years, 2 months ago
              Apparently, you didn't read the Declaration of Independence, where it says that ALL men are created equal, endowed by their creator with certain unalienable RIGHTS, that among them are life, LIBERTY and the pursuit of happiness. That declaration, along with a host of writings about the rights of man, got the ball rolling, and you, over two centuries later, didn't get it. Even four score and seven years later, many didn't get it. So, please explain who you're talking about when you say that some had no rights. I'm all ears.
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          • Posted by $ MichaelAarethun 8 years, 2 months ago
            Ho Hum...and the 14th Amendment is illegal...but nothing is done about it so??? We've still got the draft and worse. What's the poin?. His follow on however after the assassination however might qualify. Let's not forget the founders some of whom were slave owners (southerners) and some who were slave traffickers (northerners)
            What else can we tear down Is there anything left? Oh yes...the left is left. F'n congratulations.
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  • Posted by $ Abaco 8 years, 2 months ago
    What if she wanted a test for a brain tumor on herself, the doctor denied it, and she died from a brain tumor a year later. Would the doctor be liable then? Perhaps a little? I assume so. Why wouldn't he? She's got a case, but she won't get squat.

    What if she asked her doctor to do this test on her elderly parent and was denied?

    Truth be told, she could have aborted with the knowledge the test would have given her. What's the Objectivist take on that? My version is that she had every right to terminate that birth if given the information.

    A very close friend of mine (pregnant when we were with ours) learned late in the pregnancy that their baby had downs. They terminated and started over. What if they had been denied that test after asking for it?

    Maybe I have a unique perspective here because I have a disabled kid. I both love my kid more than anybody in the world and acknowledge that raising him is a massive pain in my ass. It's destroyed my wife. People can, and should be given the information available to them to make informed decisions. That's the Objectivist in me talking - and I don't mean to offend.

    What good is technology if we don't use it to make informed decisions? Just what in the hell are we doing here, otherwise?
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    • Posted by $ MichaelAarethun 8 years, 2 months ago
      The doctor would be protected by the rules of the clinic and some very very expensive liability insurance which would bear the blame if found guilty but could afford to fight, delay and drag out any law suits far more than an indigent ACLU and he rest of the scum bottom feeders would help.. if they scented enough of a pay off or some other advantage.
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      • Posted by $ Abaco 8 years, 2 months ago
        Very few people understand that the medical system is ONLY a business. The citizens have been brainwashed into believing there's some benevolence in all those people in white doctor coats. There isn't. Often, there isn't any skill, either.
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  • Posted by DrZarkov99 8 years, 2 months ago
    This case had better fail, or it opens the door to a vast array of lawsuits for genetic disorders. As much as the legal profession loves precedent, this has a possible chance of succeeding. The result will be a wealth of jobs for lawyers and genetic testing firms, more motivation for doctors not to specialize in OB/GYN, and a more bloated health care cost.
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    • Posted by term2 8 years, 2 months ago
      I got prostate cancer a few years ago. So I should sue my parents for giving me defective genes?? Everyone dies at some point, so if this case wins, everyone should sue their parents for any defective genes they got at birth I suppose.
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  • Posted by $ jdg 8 years, 2 months ago
    Sounds like a legitimate malpractice claim to me.

    I can't blame her for not requesting a test that she didn't know existed. It's a doctor's job to inform you about options like that.
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  • Posted by autumnleaves 8 years, 2 months ago
    Could this mother have gotten the idea from a Jody Picoult book published a few years ago? Interesting story with a disasterous ending. All the lives involved were ruined.
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  • Posted by Ben_C 8 years, 2 months ago
    Art the bottom of the article it states that the doctor did in fact discuss cystic fibrosis with the mom but she turned down the blood test. So, who do we believe?
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  • Posted by ProfChuck 8 years, 2 months ago
    She may have a civil case of detrimental reliance given that she alerted her care givers to her condition under the assumption that they were competent to evaluate the risk. She relied on an expert professional in the field to the ultimate detriment of both her and her child. Hard to prove but it is a possible approach.
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  • Posted by johnpe1 8 years, 2 months ago
    when I visit with my MDs, I "expect" that I am buying
    their understanding of the state-of-the-art as it applies
    to my life situation. . when I come to think that I am not
    getting that, I change doctors. . while she might have
    the idea that she was not getting the best care from
    her doctor, she could have gotten help from another,
    couldn't she? -- j
    .
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    • Posted by $ sekeres 8 years, 2 months ago
      Depending on where in Montana she is, the options may be rather limited. When we had our first child we had a "choice" of 2 OBs (and no midwives or other alternative practitioners) within an hour's drive -- one with a 60% C-section rate, and the one we "chose."
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  • Posted by LibertyBelle 8 years, 2 months ago
    Re: Lincoln.
    Okay, so he wasn't perfect (neither was Wash-
    ington or Jefferson). He was inconsistent, in using
    the draft (which is a form of slavery). but please
    don't tell me about states' "rights". As someone
    (A.R.) once said, "There is no such thing as 'the
    right to enslave.' "
    People who fought in a cause, whose end re-
    sult, if won, would have been the continuation
    of slavery, have no business whining about the
    economic damage, the loss of crops, etc. which
    came out of their defeat. I have no sympathy
    for that. (And this is from a Southern white).
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    • Posted by strugatsky 8 years, 2 months ago
      Not so sure that I would agree with you that a draft is a form of slavery. It depends on the type of society and the circumstances.
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      • Posted by LibertyBelle 8 years, 2 months ago
        It is. What circumstances? Conviction of a crime?
        I don't recall that that was the case with any of
        the North's draftees. Forcing someone into involun-
        tary servitude is necessarily practicing slavery.Still,
        while I don't claim Lincoln was perfect, he and his
        cause did eventually get rid of slavery.
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        • Posted by strugatsky 8 years, 2 months ago
          Depends how tight knit the society is. In Israel, for example, serving in the IDF is a requirement (they have a draft) and also a privilege. In the Soviet Union, it was only one bit better than going to jail or being shot (depending on the time).
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          • Posted by LibertyBelle 8 years, 2 months ago
            And it is a form of slavery. Regardless of which
            country it is, involuntary servitude is what it is.
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            • Posted by $ MichaelAarethun 8 years, 2 months ago
              are you old enough to remember when we came that close to dumping that law then everyone quit...the military hates it....but there is soooo much to fix it will take using it to start that up again. concentrate on what can be done, recall initiatives that will waste their time and energy, single candidates must have yes no option...it's a snake pit but it's there.
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  • Posted by LibertyBelle 8 years, 2 months ago
    I tried to click on this article, but got a notice that
    the City of Richmond was blocking it (as it occas-
    inally it does with things I try to click on) so I have-
    n't seen it. Somebody gave birth to a deformed in-
    fant? Or had she tried to get a preferred sex or
    other characteristics?
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    • Posted by $ jlc 8 years, 2 months ago
      The child has cystic fibrosis. The mother had expressed concern about this particular disease, but had never been offered genetic testing of the fetus. The implication is that she would have aborted the fetus while it was early term if she had known that it was likely it would develop cystic fibrosis.

      Jan
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  • Posted by wiggys 8 years, 2 months ago
    are their tests that can determine this form of birth defect and if so it should have been done since the pregnant woman requested it. since she was ignored then of course the doctors should be held responsible for their lack of action. the fact that the woman has taken care of her off spring properly and has a deep emotional attachment is irrelevant.
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    • Posted by strugatsky 8 years, 2 months ago
      Apparently, she never asked for the tests; she thought of them after the fact. Of course, she lived on a different planet, where telephones, internet, intercity travel and all other forms of communications did not exist and she had difficulties being responsible for herself; of yes, the planet was called the USofA, where the only available services are government education, welfare and lawyers.
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      • Posted by edweaver 8 years, 2 months ago
        And even if she did ask for the tests she apparently did not ask for the results. Had she, it would not have been too late to do the tests. Still her responsibility IMHO.
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      • Posted by blackswan 8 years, 2 months ago
        Why was she spreading her legs if she was so concerned about the outcome?!?
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        • Posted by strugatsky 8 years, 2 months ago
          She wasn't concerned about it then. Later, she saw an ad on TV that she can sue and win millions, and we all know that if its on TV, it must be true; in this case, however, the TV ad just may prove to be true!
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        • Posted by $ Abaco 8 years, 2 months ago
          So, she should have been forced to have a disabled child? The (too short) article states that the child is the love of her life.

          What gives here?...
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          • Posted by $ MichaelAarethun 8 years, 2 months ago
            hard choice one of ours and i'm the adoptive parent is a cerebral palsey child who will never speak. Where we live such tests in advance are not available. But the early tests would have indicated the possibility and then confirmed long before the first two trimesters were up. I can imagine life without that child but then that child can not imagine life without the ability to remember a few minutes ago or examine a future. And she never will....
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      • Posted by wiggys 8 years, 2 months ago
        The first paragraph of the article contradicts what you have written here, sturgatsky
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        • Posted by strugatsky 8 years, 2 months ago
          "she says she told her doctor she was concerned about cystic fibrosis, but she was never offered screening to see if she was a carrier for the disease, she had trouble contacting genetic counselors, and her doctor never asked if she got genetic counseling." -- She was "concerned" - but did she ask for a test and was refused? Trouble contacting genetic counselors? - really? No one chased her offering services? She had no access to a phonebook and other, more responsive counselors? Come on! Ever tried getting Food Stamps? those offices are never "responsive," yet every moron in the country manages to "get through." If she was truly concerned, which she should have been, I am sure that those answers would have been easier to obtain than Food Stamps.
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          • Posted by $ 8 years, 2 months ago
            When my wife was pregnant with our 1st daughter, my wife's OB/GYN conducted genetic testing to determine my daughter's likelihood for having several genetic diseases without our consent, and advised us to abort. I am glad to say that my daughter is an up and coming Dagny Taggart.
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            • Posted by strugatsky 8 years, 2 months ago
              Excellent! We all know that this is pretty much out of our control. The probabilities can be somewhat predicted, but almost never certainties. Personally, I would prefer to be an informed parent and then make my own decision, as did you. The woman suing didn't seem to care enough to be informed and when the odds turned against her, decides to collect. Come to think of it, I'll start making a list of my failures and will see if someone is willing to pay for them... Oh, wait, I'm wrong gender, color, self-identification and political persuasion... Maybe in my next reincarnation!
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              • Posted by $ 8 years, 2 months ago
                I like being informed, too, but I didn't like paying for a test for which the answer would not have affected our decision to go forward with my wife's pregnancy or not.
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            • Posted by Mamaemma 8 years, 2 months ago
              That's amazing to me, jbrenner. The doctor should give you all the information he has, and his responsibility ends there. He has no business advising you to abort, not to mention doing testing without your consent. Disgusting. Glad to hear you have a wonderful daughter.
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              • Posted by $ 8 years, 2 months ago
                I was a little surprised, too, about the doctor's recommendation. She had said that my wife's chance of having a Down's syndrome baby was 10%, instead of the usual 5% just based on her age. My wife had some other factor that I have since forgotten.

                What I didn't realize as clearly at the time was that now my daughter's genetic profile was in someone's computer somewhere, without my or her permission. This is one of the scarier implications of Zerocare (or Obamascare).

                Last night, elsewhere in this thread, I wrote about 23AndMe's genetic testing services. Imagine the implications of an insurance company getting hold of your genetic profile.
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    • Posted by $ 8 years, 2 months ago
      There are several companies that are making genetic testing rather affordable, such as 23AndMe. 23AndMe correlates your DNA with others who have genetic defects to predict your likelihood to develop genetic disorders.
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  • Posted by LibertyBelle 8 years, 2 months ago
    I don't really know how to get my comments onto
    "Comments Received" in others' e-mail boxes. (I
    think someone told me once, but I forgot). ed weaver--SURPRISED THAT THINGS GET
    BLOCKED?--Oh yeah. Other things get blocked, too. Jobs on websites, and such. I
    asked a librarian about it, and she seemed un-
    clear as to why.
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