Would You Encourage You Child to Go to College?
With everything going on in colleges today (the progressive brainwashing, protests, etc.), high cost of education, and the fact that it isn't necessary for some careers, would you encourage your child to go to college?
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When I was growing up, I was told I had to go to college because it was the only way to get a good job.
I received a bachelor's degree in business with a concentration in technical communication. I also received $30,000 in student debt.
I have stated in the Gulch before that I believe my degree is worthless. Not only did I not learn much if anything during my college days, no one has ever asked to see proof of my degree.
I started my own business and taught myself (or learned from others like sdesapio) everything I know. College was definitely unnecessary and I wish that someone (a parent, grandparent, etc.) would have told me that.
If I had a child, I would ask them what they want to be. If they wanted to be an engineer, doctor, or some other profession that requires higher education that would be a different story. However, if they said "I don't know" or answered with a career that doesn't really require a college education I would encourage them not to go. Instead, I would help them find an internship, apprenticeship, job, or alternative learning opportunity. Ex. if you want to be a software developer there are all of these immersive bootcamps popping up that'll teach you the skill in 6 months or less and help you get a job.
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When I was growing up, I was told I had to go to college because it was the only way to get a good job.
I received a bachelor's degree in business with a concentration in technical communication. I also received $30,000 in student debt.
I have stated in the Gulch before that I believe my degree is worthless. Not only did I not learn much if anything during my college days, no one has ever asked to see proof of my degree.
I started my own business and taught myself (or learned from others like sdesapio) everything I know. College was definitely unnecessary and I wish that someone (a parent, grandparent, etc.) would have told me that.
If I had a child, I would ask them what they want to be. If they wanted to be an engineer, doctor, or some other profession that requires higher education that would be a different story. However, if they said "I don't know" or answered with a career that doesn't really require a college education I would encourage them not to go. Instead, I would help them find an internship, apprenticeship, job, or alternative learning opportunity. Ex. if you want to be a software developer there are all of these immersive bootcamps popping up that'll teach you the skill in 6 months or less and help you get a job.
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Jan, in management now
We told our sons that college would be on them, if they chose to go, but we never pushed it.
in botany and had wanted to be a forester. . mom had
a degree in sociology and wanted to be a social worker,
so dad got pragmatic and did ww2 army plus HR with
Sears, and mom did homemaker with 2 kids. . I did
engineer and they looked at me like I was from Mars,
loving Rand and cranking numbers with a slide rule.
since I never had kids, I would wish that they'd like a
science career which would bring them independence
to the max, and then figure out how school would work
with the individual. . my 3 degrees helped me. -- j
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...They all took the GED and went to military which of course gave them a better education opportunity and saved a lot of wasted time.
Of that number all retired at 20 years of service except one who was killed in Vietnam and one who stayed in over twenty and made one star rank.
Of that number half went to second careers with a Bachelors degree after twenty the other half did the four years took a degree and went back to the military except two. One became a Doctor MD and one went to work for the Federal Bureau of Prisons.
Class of 63.
My daughter took it at 15 1/2.
The military though, at one pont required GED plus one quarter or semester of university for a while At other times they didn't care if you were educated well enough to say Huh?
No telling what the rules are now.
I took some courses in JC (later in my life) and found them pathetic. For example: When I dropped out of a Psych class [long story], I took the professor aside and showed him my notes: I had attended his class for a few weeks and I had found two things he had said worth writing down. I asked him if I had missed noting anything important. He was aghast. He thought a while, and agreed with me - he said that he had not realized he had diluted his lectures that much since he had stopped teaching at the University. So I regard JC's more as extended High Schools than as colleges.
I had a boyfriend who was a genius. He had dropped out of college and was therefore relegated to working on assembly lines in tractor factories because he did not have the 'magic piece of paper'. Anywhere he showed intelligence and initiative, he was fired; no one wanted to supervise a maverick who was smarter than they were.
So, yes on college if classes are technical; no on JC unless you want to clean up what you missed in HS or learn a trade. Yes you need the 'magic piece of paper', but it will only keep you from being excluded from consideration, it will not grant you a job.
Jan
I hated school too much. When I didn't make it in-
to the top singing group the teacher was forming in
high school, any motivation I might have had to go
(I might have gone for the music) was gone.--
But since then, I have gone through a consid-
erable number of tech courses,lasting a few
months apiece; and it doesn't get me a job.
(Wait; the business school closed down at the
end of 1970, about halfway through the course,
and in 1977 I got a job in a commissary kitchen
in a restaurant chain,part of which was helping
the boss-lady of the commissary with paper-
work--but if I had depended on my education for
support, 6 and a half years or so would have
been a long time to go without eating). And,
after I finished a keypunch course, I once got
a part-time, temporary job copying invoices on-
to a computer, which lasted a few weeks). It is
a matter of paying sometimes as much as about
$300, going a few months, and then not getting
the job. I do not regret that I was not suckered
into going to a four-year liberal arts college, go-
ing through all that pain and boredom, getting
into all that debt, and still not getting any
better job and money to pay it off with. Once
my former French teacher (who had had me skip
2nd-year French and go into 3rd, where I made
straight A's again, though I can't say as much a-
bout all the other subjects), said if I had gone
through college, "Then you'd have a college de-
gree."
"Yeah, then I'd be a street vendor with a
college degree," I replied, to which remark my
younger brother objected.-- Better to lose $300
and waste a few months, than $40,000 and
waste four years.
I think like you, awebb--if there is a specific
career for which it is really necessary, such as
medical doctor, that is one thing; otherwise,
don't bother. Also, the people in this country
need to boycott the colleges, and bring those
professors et al down off their high horse.
If a child does want to do something that requires college, I would refer them to Hillsdale College or Prager University...at least they wouldn't be inundated with revised, confounded liberal nonsense. There is so much that can be done online also.
I myself have furthered my education with over 20 lecture courses from Hillsdale...it's amazing how tainted and inaccurate our education was even in the 60s/70s.
Any of you out there have a thought on what is making college so expensive. Is it accreditation? I can imagine starting college of engineering. I think four or five good engineers could teach a small class and my math has me making more than I do as an executive teaching. Where does the money go? Administrators? trash collection?
Comparing myself to many of my high-school friends (some barely graduated from 12th grade and some could not even accomplish that) I was better suited for higher education. First off, I had a willingness to attend college whereas they were already a foot out of academia and happy to abandon the discipline of study complex thoughts. I also chose self-improvement. I saw myself at the beginning of a long road of discovery and accomplishments whereas their only interests were, dope and fast food jobs and romances.
Only one of them matured and abandoned the moocher-lifestyle. He obtained a G.E.D. and then an Associates. He eventually became a responsible career man, husband, father, and neighbor. He started much later but now we are about equal by all measurements I can imagine.
Higher education is definitely not the only means to knowledge and influence; books, documentaries, internships, trials and errors, experience etc. can get you as far as, if not further than, and undergrad. What matters most, regardless of institutional educations, are drive, long term goals and personal responsibilities.
I think apprenticeships are excellent ideas! I honestly believe hands on experience is great!
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