Why I love being over 40 in today's world (and you could too?)
I'm 45 years old (and young, all things considered). For some additional context, I was first introduced to Ayn Rand by my father with "Anthem" when I was in junior high. Then I re-discovered her in college and embraced her ideas passionately, soaking up all of her fiction and non-fiction works that I could get my hands on.
I pursued a rewarding engineering career along with getting married, raising a family, enjoying artistic hobbies, and supporting causes important to me. It wasn't until I turned 40 did I figure out how to combine all of these strengths and interests into focused efforts. Plus, I realized how technology has made so many opportunities available to us today. Those under 40 don't remember what it was like...all the things that could have a major impact needed permission and someone else's authority. Like releasing a music CD, publishing a book, filming and releasing a movie, hosting a radio or TV show, organizing an event, teaching a course, building a complex product, starting a business...
Very few to no barriers in today's world for anyone reading this post! Those of us over 40 have the benefit of both hindsight and foresight, along with our personal experiences and the skills we have accumulated. As long as we are willing to continue learning new tools and methods, why aren't more of us excited about the opportunities available to us today?
This 6-minute video from serial entrepreneur Gary Vaynerchuk gave me an inspiring kick in the pants. If you are over 40 I hope you watch it too. Then tell me what you think with a comment below. I want to see more of the fierce, heroic spirit of achievement from people in this online Gulch. Who else still has a fire that needs to burn bright?
https://www.facebook.com/gary/videos/...
I pursued a rewarding engineering career along with getting married, raising a family, enjoying artistic hobbies, and supporting causes important to me. It wasn't until I turned 40 did I figure out how to combine all of these strengths and interests into focused efforts. Plus, I realized how technology has made so many opportunities available to us today. Those under 40 don't remember what it was like...all the things that could have a major impact needed permission and someone else's authority. Like releasing a music CD, publishing a book, filming and releasing a movie, hosting a radio or TV show, organizing an event, teaching a course, building a complex product, starting a business...
Very few to no barriers in today's world for anyone reading this post! Those of us over 40 have the benefit of both hindsight and foresight, along with our personal experiences and the skills we have accumulated. As long as we are willing to continue learning new tools and methods, why aren't more of us excited about the opportunities available to us today?
This 6-minute video from serial entrepreneur Gary Vaynerchuk gave me an inspiring kick in the pants. If you are over 40 I hope you watch it too. Then tell me what you think with a comment below. I want to see more of the fierce, heroic spirit of achievement from people in this online Gulch. Who else still has a fire that needs to burn bright?
https://www.facebook.com/gary/videos/...
I don't consider my age any barrier to what I can now achieve with my life. I always wanted to work for myself, to invent/create/discover something of purpose and always knew I had the brains and drive somewhere in me to do it. I have a constant desire to gain knowledge and technology thrills me every day.
So, single, no dependants and with a considerable amount of life experience in my back pocket I am in a stronger position than ever to be all that I can be. There are no excuses, no one to hold me back.
Thank you for posting this video. Very timely indeed for me and I have bookmarked it.
I'm firing on all cylinders. I need to come up with a seriously good idea now! :-)
There are lots of others here eager and capable to recommend the next things on Objectivism for you. When it comes time to identify and pursue that seriously good idea, I'd love to give you some recommendations on books or resources for you. Please let me know if you would like those. Regardless, here's to your future success and happiness!
Questions? The big one is for me. I need to work out how best to use my abilities to make a fulfilling living. I've asked myself this before (as many do) but I have more clarity in my thinking and determination now.
I'm learning every day reading the discussions here and picking up lots about US politics and history too (I'm in Scotland).
It is very exciting and I am glad to have found this forum. Some around me seem to think my recent change in attitude is down to a mid life crisis. I just smile. To me the "crisis" is over and the adventure is just beginning.
The 'that' to which they were referring was something like 'playing tennis' or 'camping'. They were in their 50's at the time - and could definitely have done these things. But they knew that they were supposed to be in a pigeonhole of 'age' and so they conformed to the expected standards...and became old before they needed to be.
I was late-born, and watched this as I grew up: I resolved not to do this as I got older. Now, I am 62, and I watch the people around me at work. I hear them talk about their parents who are old and can't take care of themselves any more. These people are OLD!...and some of them are younger than I am in years (the rest are about 5 years older).
I regularly do two martial arts and I am learning how to joust. I camp by myself in the wilderness (OK, OK...I have 300lbs of German Shepherd dogs as excellent company and general deterrent). I would like to go on an archaeological dig in the Eastern Mediterranean (trying to figure out how to do that in combination with work). I have no plans on retiring.
Stop telling yourself that you are Old. Why? Because it works when you do, and you don't really want that, do you?
Jan
ham radio, an electric-start harley, etc. -- and now cannot
imagine how I had enough time to work! . my list of things
which need quick action is getting long....... and the fun
is getting stronger every day!!! -- j
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Jan
I too have seen many who faded away like old soldiers,
rapidly. . it is sad. . after serious reflection, I concluded
that I wouldn't go that way. . but I have been lucky
in this life, and have hobbies plus a serious drive for
independence. . besides having been born in the u.s.,
I have interests which range far and wide, from music
to welding. . from poetry to radio. . independence to the
maximum extent is also helpful. . readiness for whatever happens
is a drive which we all might share.
and I envy your work situation -- Go For It and make the news!!! -- j
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I think that, at the root, I am aware that I am a Very Lazy Person and that I am saved from degenerate indolence by having to earn a living and by being easily fascinated by so many things. The world is a wonderful place and it has an endless supply of things to learn...but still: would I ever get off the couch and stop reading if I did not have to go to work 5 days a week? I don't absolutely know; I fear that I would not.
Jan
like I do -- no laptop or ipad for me!!! -- j
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like I do -- no laptop or ipad for me!!! -- j
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Jan
the computer over there on the couch with me!!! -- j
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Jan, not renown for being thin skinned
my brother-in-law worked on them today ... tried to answer
you from the white one, but it's still in its infancy. . the
blue computer must continue for awhile.
I love to read so much that it's a problem, yes, so I have a
thing about this corner of the kitchen ... desktop. . weakness
and strength in one. . and now, we're working on Jed O'Dea book 4
with great chagrin....... . very interesting!!! -- j
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Interesting indeed.
Jan
to tugging and convincing and subduing of my role of gee-whiz editor
to his role as author. . it's fun and interesting!!! -- j
p.s. the blue and white computers are both online, now!!!
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Jan
oh. . yes. . Indie. . Schuyler House or creative anachronism?
movies are wonderful;;; we have hundreds here, and there
never is enough time to enjoy them. . we need to stop time
and declare a movie hiatus!!! -- j
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As I have recently learned, "Indie" apparently means 'an Independent movie' - one that is not filmed or distributed via the big studios. Wm has written a terrific script about a nuclear threat at the Port of LA, and we are going to try to film it. I am learning a lot more about the Film Industry than I ever really intended to, but it is fun.
The movie is basically about free will.
Jan
post which is in the "hot list" today? . and from my nuclear
background, I could contribute as an expert witness.
if it were about a "suitcase bomb" instead of a dirty bomb,
there might be more suspense. . while there is a lot which is
classified, the unclassified stuff is good.
and have you read the other 2 Jed O'Dea books? -- j
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Jan
Jan
Reading Atlas Shrugged was a huge inspiration to me. One of my favorite quotes: “The question isn't who is going to let me; it's who is going to stop me.” I like to add, "Stay the F out of my way."
ironically, that always seems to be the prevailing mood of the country in EVERY decade, WWI! WWII, the Depression, the recession, Korea, Cold War, Vietnam, Iraq, Afghanistan, housing market. and with each age, everyone feared for the "up and coming generation" - flappers, tiny boppers, flower children, the me gen, gen x, gen next etc. pessimism, has always been a black thread that runs through the fabric of American Society.
Yet we have managed not only survive but to thrive. As our friend Stossel continually points out, we have more personal wealth, more freedom ( of the kind this author references) and more leisure time.
And if you ask most economists, they are not half as pessimistic about the economy as is the average citizen. So their is a lot of RATIONAL support for optimism.
HOWEVER, the idea of eternal prosperity is not a guarantee. Strong political and economic systems have, and are failing ( see Greece and the EU). The miracle of American capitalism is not the prosperity it has delivered over the last century, but rather the fact that it has done so under the incredible drag, and hobbling of a growing statist, even socialistic government - starting with FDR up to the un-apologetic socialist that is running for the Democratic nomination, not to mention Bernie Sanders ( wink ).
But there is a limit to the power of our economic engine, as Rand started pointing out half a century ago. Being from Iowa, I can't help but think of it like a tractor pull. For those that aren't familiar, tractor owners compete to see how far they can pull a sled, the weight of which steadily increases by every foot traveled until it is so heavy the tractor stalls. and it always does. the sled ALWAYS eventually wins.
My fear is that our tractor IS losing ground to the statist sled - by the burden the government is heaping on the it WHILE it is ALSO pulling on the choke, pedaling the brake and syphoning out its fuel.
They don't seem to notice the warning lights on the dash, or even the other tractors up ahead that are already in the ditch. Rather than yank the wheel back to the crown of the road, they seem insistent on following other statist states straight into the ditch.
Given this fact, we don't have the luxury of wringging our hands, our fretting about the future in the same grand tradition of previous generations... The future is now... We need to act positively and aggressively to yank the wheel away from the suicide socialists. I know we are small in number, but that is all the more for each of us to do everything we can to get our hands on the wheel and pull with all our might. Even if we change the course of the nation's tractor and its engine only one degree, we buy ourselves years if not decades of economic survival.
And the more hands people see pulling in the RIGHT direction, the more people will be willing to join in, and maybe, just maybe, keep us on the road, while we reduce the load on our liberty, our pocket books and the pursuit of happiness... Ala Ayn.
However, I've lost patience or security to rely on our national tractor changing its course in time for me and my family. We need to prepare and act for ourselves as individuals, and organize as communities who share similar values. Thus I am happy and determined to be an active participant in our online gulch. :-)
I think it is wonderful that you have taken to reading Ayn Rand in depth but I do not believe you fully comprehend what she has been saying. For all of your life there has been development of many conveniences and other wonderful products, however the country has been heading down the road of what appears to be socialism when in fact it is facism and altruism. Because this is the direction of the country the level of development is in decline.
The second wonder is passing on the information before I take it with me ...rendered useless by the inevitable. Last year my new families youngest received laptops. This year kindles. We discuss any and all subjects. I taught them research and the rudiments of thinking and reasoning.
I wondered what life over 40 would be like and who they would teach. At what levels with what technologies long after i had passed my immortality to the future through them. That is the second wonder of life over 40. It is enough. Just a third thought. We do it through two languages using something called translate this page when my Spanish skills suffer.
I learn they learn the English. Translate this......Define that. Three miracles in one lifetime. I'm not really 39. But I never tell them that. They think I don't know that they know. i heard them ask their mother what would they do after... I was gone? "Just as he taught you to do."
Just when I thought all I had done for the world was pull triggers. I found I had made a difference. So now we are discussing the morality or immorality of violence in a very violent world.
Last year a volley ball and a soccer ball. this year a punching and kicking bag. How to throw a straight punch and watch the opponents shoulders and show no fear in your own eyes. Mostly When Not To Throw the punch.
I resolve not to think the world's going to worms on account of the next generation, although I understand the temptation.
and Yes, let's GO!!! -- j
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I have done things since my 40's [much more than a few years ago] I never imagined I could do, have or enjoy. Yea, I took a hit in 09, but I'm back and even wrote a book while I was regaining upon my losses. That blows my mind.
Mine is at authorhouse or any of the other sites. The Fight for Conscious Human Life.
It's taken a couple of years but I've sold 90,000 so far and got a bigger publisher for the next.
Seriously now, promoting the achievements and successes of people within our community and online Gulch here has some very valuable and effective purposes. Hopefully you agree without me spelling out all of the reasons. So I encourage you to make a dedicated post about your book. If you've already done that, can you add a link in this thread? Thanks again, and in advance of that!
I really hope he's right and I'm wrong. But I'm not going to be convinced by the techniques that are used to sell religions.
In this case, I'm convinced that you'll be able to find evidence for whichever conclusion you choose. Therein lies the power of free will and conscious focus.
One of the comments on the site mentioned that wait a minute, it is not all rainbows and butterflies out there. I can attest to that.
Got laid off at 58/1/2 after 30+ years of working in the gold mining industry for the majors. Myself and a couple of others got together and said, perfect, now let's put all of these skills and all of this experience to work for us for once. A year and half later, we have an excellent project and are about to raise capital to do some drilling and test some of the best exploratory targets I have seen in my career. What a different road it has been. Absolutely fulfilling.
And then the Department of the Interior and the US Forest Service drops the sage grouse bombshell in May - now finalized two weeks ago with a ROD and a cfr published land segregation - and are taking our project with a mineral withdrawal.
Now, I'm 60 and have to turn around and start all over. Thanks, government.
We have discussed amongst ourselves that maybe, just maybe our project could have been better off, if we just acknowledge the reality that we live in a corrupt banana republic now, and why not just bypass all this and buy the corrupt officials off? Good grief, we spent enough money in "compliance".
Well, it appears we live in a special version of a banana republic - because of who we have been and that that had to be shut down.
But, we will persevere. My good friend and partner, I remember, 25 years ago used to have a t-shirt for his drilling employees that depicted a frog beginning to be swallowed by a crane - only the frog had the crane by the throat with his two front "hands".
The caption was "Never Give Up"! I like to remind him of those days.
My father always told me to make the big mistakes early, when it's cheaper and easier to fix them, and that still applies. It's tempting to try to imagine or simulate a concept and then charge into production, but prototypes done early can still show you what you didn't think about.
3D printing is a lot bigger deal than many have yet recognized, and it makes the creation of prototypes much easier. I'm amazed when I see a prosthetic hand that's been printed, usable at a cost one hundredth that of prior technology.
Crowdfunding is a wonderful tool, avoiding the turmoil of begging for money from people who are just in the game for profit. While there's been some effort to try to open up the conventional investment opportunities to less affluent, there's still the opportunity to rip off the innocent. Crowdfunding taps into motivations that are more emotional and intellectual, from an audience that better appreciates what you offer, and isn't looking for a payoff.
Information security technology is lagging, and keeping your intellectual property safe can be difficult. I will pass along advice from my many years with top secret, compartmented systems, and that is that an "air gap" remains the best form of information security. Develop your ideas on a system without Internet connections, and selectively transfer news or other information via another computer, using flash drive or CD/DVD for information you wish to be communicated to outsiders. Any incoming data has to be thoroughly checked out before delivering it to the closed system. Cloud storage is tempting, but should be used only for information you don't care so much if it's leaked. Personal information should be treated the same way as classified.
That's what I have to offer to the upcoming generations. Unless we do something stupid to destroy our civilization, an exciting future lies ahead.
If you are looking for other more innovative ways to give advice and lessons to upcoming generations, we should talk more. Let me know if you would be interested and I'll be honored to talk with you more.