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Why I love being over 40 in today's world (and you could too?)

Posted by BrettRocketSci 8 years, 7 months ago to Business
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I'm 45 years old (and young, all things considered). For some additional context, I was first introduced to Ayn Rand by my father with "Anthem" when I was in junior high. Then I re-discovered her in college and embraced her ideas passionately, soaking up all of her fiction and non-fiction works that I could get my hands on.
I pursued a rewarding engineering career along with getting married, raising a family, enjoying artistic hobbies, and supporting causes important to me. It wasn't until I turned 40 did I figure out how to combine all of these strengths and interests into focused efforts. Plus, I realized how technology has made so many opportunities available to us today. Those under 40 don't remember what it was like...all the things that could have a major impact needed permission and someone else's authority. Like releasing a music CD, publishing a book, filming and releasing a movie, hosting a radio or TV show, organizing an event, teaching a course, building a complex product, starting a business...
Very few to no barriers in today's world for anyone reading this post! Those of us over 40 have the benefit of both hindsight and foresight, along with our personal experiences and the skills we have accumulated. As long as we are willing to continue learning new tools and methods, why aren't more of us excited about the opportunities available to us today?
This 6-minute video from serial entrepreneur Gary Vaynerchuk gave me an inspiring kick in the pants. If you are over 40 I hope you watch it too. Then tell me what you think with a comment below. I want to see more of the fierce, heroic spirit of achievement from people in this online Gulch. Who else still has a fire that needs to burn bright?
https://www.facebook.com/gary/videos/...


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  • Posted by 8 years, 7 months ago in reply to this comment.
    Thanks Michael. Almost anything we want to know is at our fingertips. And that which we can't find, we can pursue. And connect with others who want it too.
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  • Posted by $ jlc 8 years, 7 months ago in reply to this comment.
    It is a big decision, and the possible consequences if one is wrong are enormous.

    I think that, at the root, I am aware that I am a Very Lazy Person and that I am saved from degenerate indolence by having to earn a living and by being easily fascinated by so many things. The world is a wonderful place and it has an endless supply of things to learn...but still: would I ever get off the couch and stop reading if I did not have to go to work 5 days a week? I don't absolutely know; I fear that I would not.

    Jan
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  • Posted by johnpe1 8 years, 7 months ago in reply to this comment.
    I did a Ben Carson -- compared without intending to do so.
    I too have seen many who faded away like old soldiers,
    rapidly. . it is sad. . after serious reflection, I concluded
    that I wouldn't go that way. . but I have been lucky
    in this life, and have hobbies plus a serious drive for
    independence. . besides having been born in the u.s.,
    I have interests which range far and wide, from music
    to welding. . from poetry to radio. . independence to the
    maximum extent is also helpful. . readiness for whatever happens
    is a drive which we all might share.
    and I envy your work situation -- Go For It and make the news!!! -- j
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  • Posted by $ jlc 8 years, 7 months ago in reply to this comment.
    You are fortunate, johnpe. I have seen many people retire and fall quickly into senescence. It was very depressing to watch. I fear that I would not do well without work to apply a structure to my life...and since I enjoy my work, there would be no point to retiring.

    Jan
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  • Posted by $ Abaco 8 years, 7 months ago
    Interesting video. I got half way through it. I'm late 40s. I've always been an engineer, and plan to phase out of engineering over the next several years or so as, in my opinion, America's need for engineers continues to falter. But, about 7 years ago I went back to school to study another profession. Within a year, a firm where I had been a client hired me. I continued with the schooling. I'm not actually allowed to say exactly what I'm doing. But, I work that 4pm to midnight block doing it, and I'm really enjoying it. My 20-something clients are my favorite because they want to learn (and basic financial stuff, no matter what you're told, isn't taught in school unless you REALLY seek it out). I do have a problem with the general public in my age group that flies in the face of what the guy in the video is saying. In general, they are intellectually lazy...not all of us, but a majority.

    Reading Atlas Shrugged was a huge inspiration to me. One of my favorite quotes: “The question isn't who is going to let me; it's who is going to stop me.” I like to add, "Stay the F out of my way."
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  • Posted by johnpe1 8 years, 7 months ago in reply to this comment.
    Jan, I retired at 59 and immediately took off with a few ideas --
    ham radio, an electric-start harley, etc. -- and now cannot
    imagine how I had enough time to work! . my list of things
    which need quick action is getting long....... and the fun
    is getting stronger every day!!! -- j
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  • Posted by Flootus5 8 years, 7 months ago in reply to this comment.
    Thanks very much for remembering this topic on another post.

    We have discussed amongst ourselves that maybe, just maybe our project could have been better off, if we just acknowledge the reality that we live in a corrupt banana republic now, and why not just bypass all this and buy the corrupt officials off? Good grief, we spent enough money in "compliance".

    Well, it appears we live in a special version of a banana republic - because of who we have been and that that had to be shut down.

    But, we will persevere. My good friend and partner, I remember, 25 years ago used to have a t-shirt for his drilling employees that depicted a frog beginning to be swallowed by a crane - only the frog had the crane by the throat with his two front "hands".

    The caption was "Never Give Up"! I like to remind him of those days.
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  • Posted by Timbus 8 years, 7 months ago
    I'm 56 and decided to return to graduate school after retiring from the Army. It was one of the best decisions I've ever made.
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  • Posted by $ Olduglycarl 8 years, 7 months ago
    He's right, You're right. We have the wisdom, the skills that are not taught in today's world and the ethics to boot. I'm not about to wind down for any one.
    I have done things since my 40's [much more than a few years ago] I never imagined I could do, have or enjoy. Yea, I took a hit in 09, but I'm back and even wrote a book while I was regaining upon my losses. That blows my mind.
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  • Posted by $ jdg 8 years, 7 months ago in reply to this comment.
    The video seems to be nothing but Gary V. endlessly repeating that there's plenty of opportunity out there -- without giving any evidence of his thesis at all. "I've repeated my mantra 137 times! And dropped in 20 celebrities names! So it must be true!"

    I really hope he's right and I'm wrong. But I'm not going to be convinced by the techniques that are used to sell religions.
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  • Posted by $ MichaelAarethun 8 years, 7 months ago in reply to this comment.
    It all came from a passage in a book....so I looked it up. The old saying "May you live in interesting times." I'm finding this new world we live in with access to information beyond anyone's wildest most fictional dreams just a few decades ago - maybe two no more than three has made any enquiry capable of returning an answer. If the answers are head of my skill nothing to stop me from going to http://science.com and raising my skills to the needed levels. Certainly not the workaday world which of necessity chewed up time in locust fashion stands in the way as before. I find myself looking at a star, or a rock or a plant or an insect or considering the chemistry of preparing a meal and then Google tell me..... That is the wonder of living to be over 40.

    The second wonder is passing on the information before I take it with me ...rendered useless by the inevitable. Last year my new families youngest received laptops. This year kindles. We discuss any and all subjects. I taught them research and the rudiments of thinking and reasoning.

    I wondered what life over 40 would be like and who they would teach. At what levels with what technologies long after i had passed my immortality to the future through them. That is the second wonder of life over 40. It is enough. Just a third thought. We do it through two languages using something called translate this page when my Spanish skills suffer.

    I learn they learn the English. Translate this......Define that. Three miracles in one lifetime. I'm not really 39. But I never tell them that. They think I don't know that they know. i heard them ask their mother what would they do after... I was gone? "Just as he taught you to do."

    Just when I thought all I had done for the world was pull triggers. I found I had made a difference. So now we are discussing the morality or immorality of violence in a very violent world.

    Last year a volley ball and a soccer ball. this year a punching and kicking bag. How to throw a straight punch and watch the opponents shoulders and show no fear in your own eyes. Mostly When Not To Throw the punch.
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  • Posted by 8 years, 7 months ago in reply to this comment.
    Thanks for your perpsective and encouragement, Dr. Zarkov! And your practical infosec advice!! Makes me realize I need to get me a computer without an internet connection...
    If you are looking for other more innovative ways to give advice and lessons to upcoming generations, we should talk more. Let me know if you would be interested and I'll be honored to talk with you more.
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  • Posted by 8 years, 7 months ago in reply to this comment.
    Thanks for this historical summary, D_E_. Very much on target! Nice analogy too.
    However, I've lost patience or security to rely on our national tractor changing its course in time for me and my family. We need to prepare and act for ourselves as individuals, and organize as communities who share similar values. Thus I am happy and determined to be an active participant in our online gulch. :-)
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  • Posted by 8 years, 7 months ago in reply to this comment.
    Thanks for your comment Sam. Great to know you are working on this for yourself too! I would like to learn more about your plans. Let's get more acquainted, ok?
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  • Posted by 8 years, 7 months ago in reply to this comment.
    I won't argue with you on those points. But I humbly suggest that if that's the focus of your mind and energy, you will let it consume you. Do you want to go down with the ship or take charge of your own destiny and succeed in spite of all the insanity and corruption? It is possible.
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  • Posted by 8 years, 7 months ago in reply to this comment.
    I'm almost at a loss for words...I recall you telling us about this injustice on another thread. I hope you find the confidence, determination, and experience to move forward from this and succeed with your next venture in a bigger, better way.
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  • Posted by 8 years, 7 months ago in reply to this comment.
    Well, I hope we'll get to see or hear more about this!! I'm a little skeptical, naturally, but let's get your original thinking and research out into the world so we can all benefit from it, including you.
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  • Posted by 8 years, 7 months ago in reply to this comment.
    Thanks for this Jan. Very inspiring for the rest of us! Reminds me of one of Nathaniel Branden's famous quotes, "Of all the judgments we make in life, none is more important than the judgment we pass on ourselves."
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  • Posted by 8 years, 7 months ago in reply to this comment.
    Hi wiggys. What have I said that makes you believe I think otherwise? I do believe our country is heading into fascism. Or collectivism and irrationality of various mixtures...but I also believe we are living in a time and place where those of us who want to "pull a John Galt" and create our own version of a personal, private Gulch (or freedom in an unfree world, as Harry Browne wrote about) are able to do that in a much easier and greater way than ever before.
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  • Posted by $ jdg 8 years, 7 months ago
    You must be kidding. Taxation, regulation, and cronyism are all worse than they've ever been in (at least US) history.
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