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60 Years

Posted by Herb7734 10 years, 3 months ago to Humor
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Tomorrow, my wife and I will be married for 60 years. Can anyone top that? Most of our friends and relatives have assumed room temperature. Everyone else has a long way to go.


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  • Posted by $ allosaur 10 years, 3 months ago
    Congratulations!
    I'm still a divorced dino.
    Never found my heart of gold.
    And I'm getting old.
    My grown kids think I'm cool.
    Maybe paying all my child support helped--
    --and I had them over every other weekend for a few years
    My stepson made me best man at his wedding after years of me thinking he just put up with me.
    My ex even borrows money from me and pays back with interest.
    She hates the next divorced hubby in her life.
    Not me. We're friends.
    No, I don't want to get back with her. She smokes. I quit.
    So she stinks; and save for money, I don't trust her.
    It's a funny world for the allosaur.
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    • Posted by 10 years, 3 months ago
      My kids guilted me into quitting smoking which I did in '74. My BW & I have had our ups & downs but always managed to get past them. But I understand that it's not always possible.
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      • Posted by johnpe1 10 years, 3 months ago
        BW = beautiful wife? . I bet that she is!!! -- j
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        • Posted by 10 years, 3 months ago
          Yes. She always looked younger than me. (We're the same age). In our 40s I often got "is that your daughter?" Grrr.
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          • Posted by johnpe1 10 years, 3 months ago
            as with my wife -- if I looked that young, I might be carded!!! -- j
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            • Posted by 10 years, 3 months ago
              Looks like we both lucked out.
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              • Posted by johnpe1 10 years, 3 months ago
                she's pudgy and very well preserved;;; I call her my supreme commander --
                the source of answers for all of life's questions!!! -- j
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                • Posted by 10 years, 3 months ago
                  I take mine from H. Rider Haggard: "She who must be obeyed." In Detroit, we had a phrase that illustrates that. It's called "Kidding on the square." She's always on a diet, so as a result she's pretty well preserved for 81 in October. She makes me diet also, but I cheat.
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                  • Posted by johnpe1 10 years, 3 months ago
                    I cheated during our little 3-day trip to Gatlinburg and she did too --
                    we took a little scotch for me and amaretto for her ... 3.5 years
                    since we'd done that -- and it was fun!!! . watching TCM
                    and being silly with my best friend -- WoW!!! -- j

                    p.s. scotch and pizza ain't bad!!!
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                    • Posted by 10 years, 3 months ago
                      Tonight we celebrated our 60th with the family and a surprise great granddaughter in from Texas. I not only overate, but it was Fried too. Plus when the restaurant people found out what we were celebrating they sent us over a double helping of Bananas Foster. I'll be thinking of that all week.
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                      • Posted by johnpe1 10 years, 3 months ago
                        years ago, on another honeymoon, my first wife and I had
                        bananas foster at brennan's in new orleans. . we drove in
                        from a camping area north of lake pontchartrain, parked our
                        truck in a free spot, walked around the corner, and acted
                        like we owned the place. . she was 18 and I was 22.
                        breakfast for royalty!!! -- j

                        http://http://www.brennansneworleans.com/men...
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                        • Posted by 10 years, 3 months ago
                          What a coincidence. My son, along with wife granddaughter (my great)and mother-in-law pulled in with his Ford 250 diesel towing his camper coming in from camping over the weekend. The old Scoutmaster still loves to camp.
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                          • Posted by johnpe1 10 years, 3 months ago
                            if you can find a safe place, it's still fun -- and food always
                            tastes better outside, compared with inside!!! -- j
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                            • Posted by 10 years, 3 months ago
                              True, but the seafood restaurant we were at was hard to beat. They started as a fish market and evolved into a restaurant as well. They have 2 boats and catch their own fish, shrimp & scallops. Also, they really know how to cook them.
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  • Posted by Animal 10 years, 3 months ago
    I can't, but last March my Mom and Dad hit 68 years - married in 1947, 92 and 87, still on their own and doing fine. Dad's the last WW2 vet left in my family. Mrs. Animal and I are at 23 years.

    Congrats to you both! Hope you're having a great day.
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    • Posted by 10 years, 3 months ago
      Wooee!
      68 and counting.
      23rd is pretty good, too. Of course, compared to your mom & dad, you're just beginners. WW2, I was just learning how to draw a P49 Aerocobra (I think). 1944 I was 10 and full of patriotic zeal.
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      • Posted by Animal 10 years, 3 months ago
        1944, I wasn't a gleam in my Daddy's eyes yet (born 1961.) But Dad was finishing bombardier's training, and his brother was jumping into Eindhoven with the 101st.
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      • Posted by Flootus5 10 years, 3 months ago
        First Aerocobra was P-39. King cobra was P-63.

        I only say because my Dad raised me on WWII aircraft. He was a P-38 crew chief in North Africa through Sicily and Italy. And then on the B-29 program in the states towards the end there. I still love those old aircraft. Rode in a CAF B-25 a while back.
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  • Posted by $ Thoritsu 10 years, 3 months ago
    Congratulations! Recommend you do not celebrate together in a recycling bin!

    Don't think we'll get to 60 years since I was married this time at 37, but you never know!
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  • Posted by $ minniepuck 10 years, 3 months ago
    What an inspiration! Congratulations to the both of you. I hope you have many more. Any advice for those also shooting for 60 years?
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    • Posted by 10 years, 3 months ago
      One of the questions I'd ask myself during an argument that starts getting heated is, "Is this the hill you want to die on?" We both like the analogy of the life as a roller-coaster. The wonderful ups, the dreadful downs and you only get off -- permanently.
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  • Posted by $ rainman0720 10 years, 3 months ago
    Congrats, Herb. Definitely an accomplishment you should be proud of. It will be 60 for my parents this coming December, although I'm not sure how pleasant it was early on.

    Seems that 3 months into their marriage, they fooled around, the consequences being that my mom spent her 19th birthday and their first wedding anniversary in the hospital with me.
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    • Posted by 10 years, 3 months ago
      Everyone has something. In our case, we were very young (21 & 20) and our parents hated each other. They couldn't stand to be in the same room with each other. It made it difficult to have family get-togethers. But we managed to overcome. Lots of scars, but -- they heal.
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  • Posted by jimslag 10 years, 3 months ago
    Wow, 60 years! That is quite an accomplishment for both of you. I am at a lowly 14 years and it has been rocky at best. We get along better when we are apart, like now. I am in New Mexico (working) and she is in the Denver, Colorado area, also working. Makes it hard sometimes but we make it work.
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    • Posted by 10 years, 3 months ago
      Rocky is the word for it. We call it the roller-coaster. As we aged, we managed to turn most of the downs as a part of the deal. No one gets out of life unscathed.
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  • Posted by $ rockymountainpirate 10 years, 3 months ago
    Congratulations Herb. If my dad were still alive my parents would have just had their 68th on the 9th of this month.
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    • Posted by 10 years, 3 months ago
      Thank you.
      It is surprising how many long lived marriages reside in the gulch.
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      • Posted by $ rockymountainpirate 10 years, 3 months ago
        It's not that surprising.Most Gulchers find their highest value. Those that don't live like Rearden.
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        • Posted by 10 years, 3 months ago
          Now is the age of shorts. Short jobs, short marriages, short shorts, short attention spans, which is what makes it surprising. Since I'm old, I guess I'm also old-fashioned. One of the things I used to enjoy is to walk along the trail in a nearby park located right on the Gulf. On a Sunday or holiday, the grills are grilling, the baseball diamond is in full use, people & families of every race and ethnicity are playing Frisbee, yelling at one another kidding one another and showing love for one another. To me, this was the real America. Now, not so much.
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          • Posted by Flootus5 10 years, 3 months ago
            Hi Herb; For those of us old enough to remember the days when there was not the instant gratifications provided by the supposed "marketplace", our memories recall something fuller than what is apparent today. I remember just taking the basketball out and perfecting sight, motion, and timing reflexes in sinking baskets, or getting on the ten speed and cruising miles just exploring the reality of the world. If weather was inclement, then I would build models or read books. Those are the memories of a kid back then.

            But, I also remember at times, spending quiet evenings with my grandfather poring over his coin collection when I was a lad of 8 years old. This was in rural southwest New Hampshire, where the living room had a large painting of a four masted sailing ship plying rough seas.

            No TV, no need for radio, forget the telephone party lines, the family goes their quiet ways of sitting in living rooms or in dining rooms such as I did with my granddad. The coins represented history, which he would elaborate upon year by year in his memory and upbringing. He was born in the 19th century, was slightly younger than Hitler and had been a gunnery instructor in WWI.

            It is from my Dad, my granddad, and also my great granddad who was born in the Civil War that I have a deep appreciation of history and the passage of time. I also have the cherished memories of sitting and conversing with my great granddad born in the Civil War when I was reaching 12 years old. I was beginning to read and appreciate works like Ayn Rand, and speak to him of his memories. Here conversing with me was a man who was 12 years old when Custer was massacred, had seen the invention of the automobile, the airplane, radio, and a man in space - two world wars, depressions, umpteen presidents come and go. He was 100 years old and sitting with me under the shade of a tree in rural Pepperell, Massachusetts in 1964.

            The history, the direct memories of people as they age are so precious and critical to humanity as it progresses - I get to a loss of words of how to appreciate the old folks. Partly, because I am one of them and have so much to say.
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            • Posted by 10 years, 3 months ago
              Being ancient, I got my first bike before what we called "racing bikes" were popular or even available. It was a blue and cream Schwinn with new departure foot back-pedal brakes. One speed and no help for the legs I rode it all over Detroit from one end of the city to another, and considering it was 30 mile wide at the top it was no mean feat. We got our first TV when it was only a 10" B&W screen and programming didn't start until 5 pm. My maternal Grandpa spoke 4 languages, none of them very well except possibly Russian. He told me stories of the revolution. He loved the kind of caviar that was orange and you could smell it 3 city blocks away. He'd spread it thick on black bread. He drank the cheapest whiskey you could buy. He once told me that it was so cold in Russia that the flames on the candles froze, but that was OK since they were so hungry they ate them.
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  • Posted by superfluities 10 years, 3 months ago
    My compliments! I'm at 25 years married and everybody I know keeps bragging for me, to me! Of course I'm mistaking thinking we'll do an uber goal of 30!!! 60 OMG! Your a rock and you rock!
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    • Posted by 10 years, 3 months ago
      Thanks.
      I had a music teacher who was trying to get us to play a difficult rhythm. He finally said about the timing we couldn't get right, "Time passes, so move your asses."
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