Tolerance
Over the past generation, the so-called virtue of tolerance has suddenly surpassed all other virtues. Since being in the Gulch, I have become increasingly aware of how tolerance can be a signal to others to trample on you like a doormat.
On the other hand, whereas intolerance of error gets you branded outside the Gulch, here it is often viewed as the correct response. In fact, Ms. Rand was one of the least tolerant people in the last 100 years. I am now beginning to view that as an endearing quality.
Please enlighten me as to whether you consider tolerance and/or politeness are virtuous or not, and of course, explain the basis for your viewpoint.
On the other hand, whereas intolerance of error gets you branded outside the Gulch, here it is often viewed as the correct response. In fact, Ms. Rand was one of the least tolerant people in the last 100 years. I am now beginning to view that as an endearing quality.
Please enlighten me as to whether you consider tolerance and/or politeness are virtuous or not, and of course, explain the basis for your viewpoint.
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"Tolerance" as not physically attacking someone you disagree with is not the same concept as how you morally evaluate ideas and people and interact with them. The first is a narrower political concept of respecting people's rights whatever you think of them otherwise, and which is necessary to subdue the arbitrary use of force in civilized society. The second is a moral concept pertaining to how you choose to relate or not relate to people, and to what degree. JB is addressing the second.
"CircuitGuy: "You mentioned tolerating error. Tolerating error is a critical life skill, IMHO, because human beings are so prone to error. We don't *accept* the errors, but we must tolerate them as a fact of life to live with ourselves and get along others."
Again, this is a different concept of what you must "tolerate" and how. You of course have to "tolerate" everything about the world as it is -- the facts of nature -- in order to live on earth. There is no choice about that. The alternative to not "accepting" the facts of what is is to die. One of the facts is that people make mistakes. Some things can't be changed and some can. See Ayn Rand's article The Metaphysical Versus the Man Made", in the anthology Philosophy: Who Needs It?, on what you must "accept" and what is open to choice.
But you don't have to "get along" with everyone and everything. You don't have to always accept incompetence or "mistakes" that are evasive or otherwise not innocent. We make choices all the time of what we will pursue or contend with. Life requires making choices. That is the fact that gives rise to morality. We must choose and what we choose makes a difference to our lives. Without the necessity of choosing and life as the standard there would be no need for morality, which deals exclusively with human choice.
Sometimes you have to put up with a lot you don't like in pursuit of higher goals (like keeping a job you generally like, or paying high taxes to stay out of jail). But that doesn't mean to abandon integrity or to not evaluate or speak out when and where appropriate. See the post on this page about moral judgment: http://www.galtsgulchonline.com/posts/2c...
quoted as 102k ohms plus-or-minus 10 percent.
and in other zones, it is latitude and acceptance
expected of conservatives for liberal causes.
Rand embraced tolerance as a waste of energy,
in my view -- since she only had so much energy,
she did not want to aim off-center when the bull's-eye
was within easy reach. . she wanted the greatest
influence, and accuracy provided that -- for the
people who were possible to reach. . imho.
politeness is altogether different. . as a member
of the south, I understand it as interpersonal
lubricant or respect -- respect that you are facing
another person. . you treat them gently because
they *are* another person. . you do not change *your*
character or opinions; you just show respect.
respect can take the form of grace in conversation
or generousness -- on the surface -- in hospitality.
it's like the embodiment of the first amendment
where you act like the government should -- you
hold back from others' choices of self-expression
or association or creed or religion. . you don't
give up your own.
does this help? -- j
Furthermore, I think that it is crucial to remember that politeness is not something that is earned by its recipient; it is something that reflects YOU and your interaction with the world around you. You are not polite because someone deserves politeness, you are polite because that is how _you_ wish to be. I am usually, but not invariably, polite.
If tolerance is defined as "acceptance of behavior and opinion that do not fail the 'fist hits my nose' test", then I am all for it. However, silence in the face of the presentation of an unacceptable philosophy does in fact 'hit my nose'. To whit: the socialist intrusion into education is hitting us all in the nose right now, because we tolerated it when it occurred. So within stated narrow parameters, I am Yes on Tolerance...but I am aware that this is not how the term is generally used.
I like different beliefs and modes of behavior. I like the new perspectives that a well-stated and different thought process can provide. One of the reasons I came back to Calif was because 'out here' people were openly 'weird'. Now a new normative standard has been established and while 'weird' is OK, it must be liberal-socialist weird in order to be socially acceptable. (At this point I begin echoing the statements already made by several eloquent posters.) This is now why I am considering leaving CA.
Jan, slightly xenophilic
It's one of the keys. Evaluation of an idea is not the same as evaluation of a person who says it. As I said near the beginning: "Most of our interactions with other people are in the form of expression of thoughts -- ranging from musing to threats. Objectivity requires maintaining context."
The forum editor added the second one instead of replacing the first. This one -- the one you responded to -- is the original.
I added the recommendation to read Ayn Rand's entire article, not just the excerpt I quoted, and to read the whole book VOS. There many members here who have still not read Ayn Rand's nonfiction.
Tolerance of a person can be manifested as politeness: it is the idea that I can still have a meaningful conversation with someone who has radically different ideas from me because we both allow the other the right to determine the course of their own lives. Why do we do this? Because we recognize that behavior/action does not necessarily define "being" because it is a representation at that specific point in time. When we are tolerant of others' behavior, it is an implicit recognition that they are acting in an allowable manner - i.e. within "tolerances". For example, one can tolerate disagreement in debate because the standard at issue is not whether or not a particular topic is right or wrong, but if thinking and expression are right or wrong. Tolerance of people should be a respect for the rights of that individual.
Tolerance of an idea, on the other hand, is completely different. If you "tolerate" an idea, you are saying that it falls within the acceptable range. Thus one can not tolerate opposing concepts or principles at the same time - it is an impossibility. Either a concept adheres to the standard (falling within tolerances and thereby declaring it suitable for a specific purpose) or it does not.
Too often, people attempt to conflate and merge tolerance for ideas and policies with tolerance for individuals. Those who do so erroneously attempt to piggyback the tolerance of ideas onto the tolerance of people. This is deceptive and should not be tolerated. ;)
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