Court takes couple’s children because father is transgender

Posted by Maphesdus 12 years, 7 months ago to Politics
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Apparently a man isn't fit to be a father if he was born female... -_-

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  • Posted by LetsShrug 12 years, 7 months ago in reply to this comment.
    No, but she shouldn't have devastated his daughters lives like that. Not to mention his wife's. Better to leave and deal with yourself privately than causing an embarrassing upheaval. Actually....it would be better to not pretend in the first place before you go and get married and have kids. Get your shit figured out before you involve others...and I'd give that advice to EVERY one.
    For the record, I dislike any type of over the top, eye catching, crazy, glaringly desperate for attention type of get ups or behavior....it reeks of something pathetic and sad. Spectacles...that's the word... I hate spectacles.
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  • Posted by $ 12 years, 7 months ago in reply to this comment.
    Maybe you personally haven't, but society in general is certainly rather celebratory of heteronormativity.

    Personally, I've noticed that whenever someone complains about homosexuality supposedly being "shoved in their face," they're really just upset at gay people for doing the exact same shit that straight people do, except that they're only noticing it because the couple involved happens to be outside the standard of what's considered "normal."
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  • Posted by LetsShrug 12 years, 7 months ago in reply to this comment.
    I have never shoved my heterosexuality in anyone's face. I have never had nor would I ever participate in a hetero parade. As far as I know we heteros don't have a chant either.
    What EVER are you TALKING about, Maph?
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    Posted by $ 12 years, 7 months ago in reply to this comment.
    LGBT people have deal with heterosexuality being shoved in their face all the time. It's only fair if they ask the favor to be returned.
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  • Posted by $ 12 years, 7 months ago in reply to this comment.
    Gender neutral dress? Oh, you mean how like how pants were once considered exclusively masculine attire, but are now available in women's styles as well? That has nothing to do with homosexuality -- that was the result of the 1940s feminist movement rebelling against oppressive sexism of the day.
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  • Posted by $ 12 years, 7 months ago in reply to this comment.
    So are you implying that the she should have isolated herself in her house and closed herself off from society post-transition?
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  • Posted by $ 12 years, 7 months ago in reply to this comment.
    Since when is wanting to be part of Back To School night an act of exhibitionism? Maybe she just wanted to be part of her children's lives. You know, like every other parent?
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  • Posted by $ 12 years, 7 months ago in reply to this comment.
    The word is "transition."

    And yeah, a lot of transsexuals do complain about doctors and therapists imposing over the top stereotypes before they're willing to provide hormone medication or other related treatment. Before a would-be transsexual can gain access any medical help, they must first get a letter of approval from a qualified therapist. I once read a story about an MTF transsexual whose therapist refused to write the necessary letter for Hormone Replacement Therapy (HRT) medication simply because the transgender individual in question happened to show up wearing pants instead of a dress. Only when the transgender individual showed up wearing a dress at the next appointment was the therapist persuaded to believe that she really was transgender, and write the necessary letter of approval.
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  • Posted by LetsShrug 12 years, 7 months ago in reply to this comment.
    Where did Mitch say 'hide'? It's the in your face stuff that does nothing for your cause. TMI and privacy used to be the norm. "Militant" was a good word.
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  • Posted by $ 12 years, 7 months ago in reply to this comment.
    It depends on the plausibility of the story. As the saying goes, extraordinary claims require extraordinary evidence.

    An LGBT person being harassed, persecuted, and/or discriminated against is an ordinary claim.
    An LGBT person engaging in harassment is an extraordinary claim.

    Stories which are improbable or implausible naturally require a higher degree of scrutiny than stories which are common occurrences.
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  • Posted by $ 12 years, 7 months ago in reply to this comment.
    If you want to believe every child should be raised by a father and a mother, that's fine, that's your own belief, and you're entitled to it. However, forcing that belief onto the entire population through law would be a violation of other people's rights.

    By the way, in this particular case, the children WERE being raised by a father and a mother. ;)
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  • Posted by $ 12 years, 7 months ago in reply to this comment.
    Telling gay people that they should have to hide who they are when straight people don't is imposing a double standard.

    Besides, acceptance cannot come without visibility. ;)
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  • Posted by Hiraghm 12 years, 7 months ago in reply to this comment.
    Did I say you have no rules? I asked if you were an anarchist, because you seem to WANT no rules at all, not even natural ones.
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  • Posted by Hiraghm 12 years, 7 months ago in reply to this comment.
    I didn't attribute it to you.
    I wanted credit from you for not insulting him for his reprehensible assertion.
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  • Posted by Hiraghm 12 years, 7 months ago in reply to this comment.
    I don't have male, either. I also don't have middle-aged (aka, "old") and I don't have American, and I don't have white... I am, however, a sex, in my case, male.

    I neither feel nor think with my genitals... nor with my fingertips. It all happens in the brain.

    Whatever turns me on, rightly or wrongly, happens in my brain, not my b... genitals.
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  • Posted by Mitch 12 years, 7 months ago in reply to this comment.
    That is what I’m doing here… Like-minded people are hard to find.
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