Court takes couple’s children because father is transgender

Posted by Maphesdus 12 years, 7 months ago to Politics
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Apparently a man isn't fit to be a father if he was born female... -_-

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  • Posted by $ Mimi 12 years, 7 months ago in reply to this comment.
    “You clearly have a very shallow understanding of trans issues”, she/he sniped as she/he tossed her head back, squared her/his shoulders before walking off.
    Drama queens. Whatever.
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  • Posted by $ Mimi 12 years, 7 months ago in reply to this comment.
    ROFL, back attcha. That’s why this article is questionable. Where are the facts? Where are the details? You keep misrepresenting me, putting words in my mouth. Never did I say that being raised by transexuals is ucky, or allude to it being nefarious. What I implied is people who exercise poor judgement like selfishly putting their own needs above their children probably make it a habit to exercise poor judgement in all areas of child-rearing. Just because this article claims that is why the children where taken from the couple doesn’t mean that is what happened. It is lacking credibility because it is lacking evidence. Perhaps there is a legitimate reason like exposure to drugs or something. We will never will know, because the real intent of the article is obviously to manufacture outrage.
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  • Posted by ObjectiveAnalyst 12 years, 7 months ago in reply to this comment.
    My pleasure. It is so easy to be misunderstood... something we are all too familiar with especially regarding Rand... :)
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  • Posted by LetsShrug 12 years, 7 months ago in reply to this comment.
    I wish I knew... I only watch stuff when it shows up on Amazon or Netflix... I hope there are more :)
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  • Posted by LetsShrug 12 years, 7 months ago in reply to this comment.
    Holy Hell rmcd. Way to blow up what I just said. First...I have not read the article...I was responding to Mimi's reference to a family that she knew in a similar situation. I do not think anyone should be jailed for being who they are, (unless, of course, they are a threat to others) but I do not have to like it, or be silent of my dislike of people who make spectacles of themselves. This does not mean that I believe people don't have the right to live the way they want. (Making a spectacle of themselves) It only means that you can't make me like it or accept it. When you cram something in someone's face that they don't care to witness it's rude and intrusive and disrespectful. If I thought it was okay to operate in that manner I would be screaming in my friend's faces how stupid they are for not giving a shit about their country, that I think their lack of interest of current gov shenanigans disgusts me because it's willful ignorance and lazy to boot. But...I don't think that is the way to win anyone over to your way of thinking...even if I KNOW they are in the wrong for not using their noggins.
    Please refrain from putting words in my mouth in the future. Live and let live...I'm all for it...just don't go thinking you can convince everyone.
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  • Posted by ObjectiveAnalyst 12 years, 7 months ago in reply to this comment.
    Hello rmcd1957,
    I do not believe LS has said what you infer. She has not suggested anyone be locked up or put in a cage. I have not seen where she has suggested any laws are needed. That is just hyperbole. She is suggesting that people maintain some sense of propriety in public and for the sake of their offspring. She has suggested that parents have a moral responsibility to their children, not to do any harm and that entails mental anguish.Whether that has occurred is a question for the children and those involved. I personally do not believe the state has the right to take the children, but that does not mitigate the problems the children may face due to the choices this person has made. I believe this link about sacrifice and the particular entries pertaining to children and the choices one makes regarding their offspring are pertinent. Choosing to have children and do what is necessary should not be a sacrifice, but you have to set priorities for their well being and those should fall higher on your hierarchy. One must take responsibility for one's actions. http://aynrandlexicon.com/lexicon/sacrif...
    Also there is this:
    The Myth
    Objectivists do not believe it is proper to have children.
    The Truth:
    (From “Playboy’s Interview with Ayn Rand,” March 1964. )
    PLAYBOY: Do you believe that women as well as men should organize their lives around work—and if so, what kind of work?
    RAND: Of course. I believe that women are human beings. What is proper for a man is proper for a woman. The basic principles are the same. I would not attempt to prescribe what kind of work a man should do, and I would not attempt it in regard to women. There is no particular work which is specifically feminine. Women can choose their work according to their own purpose and premises in the same manner as men do.
    PLAYBOY: In your opinion, is a woman immoral who chooses to devote herself to home and family instead of a career?
    RAND: Not immoral—I would say she is impractical, because a home cannot be a full-time occupation, except when her children are young. However, if she wants a family and wants to make that her career, at least for a while, it would be proper—if she approaches it as a career, that is, if she studies the subject, if she defines the rules and principles by which she wants to bring up her children, if she approaches her task in an intellectual manner. It is a very responsible task and a very important one, but only when treated as a science, not as a mere emotional indulgence.

    And

    "To an animal, the rearing of its young is a matter of temporary cycles. To man, it is a lifelong responsibility—a grave responsibility that must not be undertaken causelessly, thoughtlessly or accidentally."
    “Of Living Death,” The Voice of Reason, 55.

    One other note: There are many common values among libertarians and objectivists, but this is not a libertarian site. In fact it is more objectivist by nature.

    Respectfully,
    O.A.
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  • Posted by $ Mimi 12 years, 7 months ago in reply to this comment.
    I read the story wrong. I thought the change occurred after the baby had been born, which kind of suggested the grandparents had been intentional mislead to gain their support. For that, I apologize. The article says you have to trust the writer is telling the truth. Really? I don’t think so. Mention the state; quote the judge; do something that distinguishes it as a factual account. You use the word persecution a lot. It’s easy to rile you up with any story, whether fictional or not, by exploiting your emotional belief that the GLBT community is in a constant state of persecution. Think about it.
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  • Posted by Boborobdos 12 years, 7 months ago in reply to this comment.
    From Hiraghm: "To have their mental illness accepted (not merely tolerated)..."

    Really? Do you have a quote from the latest DSM?
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  • Posted by Boborobdos 12 years, 7 months ago in reply to this comment.
    Try a little reality in your life, Mitch. That lifesite is a propaganda machine for the most extreme right wing of extreme right wings.

    Check out: http://www.cde.ca.gov/ci/cr/cf/senatebil...

    There the first thing you will find out is that it is truly in the American spirit of respecting not just the sexual issues you are so keyed up about but religious, ethnic, and a bunch of others.

    The intent is that kids be informed in a neutral way, not extremist as you seem to have been impacted by.
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  • Posted by Boborobdos 12 years, 7 months ago in reply to this comment.
    I'll bet your the same person who objects because a gay person is in the same locker room as your son.

    Clue: Send a note to school asking that your kid be removed from said situation. Quit griping about what most folks think about.
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  • Posted by Boborobdos 12 years, 7 months ago in reply to this comment.
    Don't know you, Mitch, but you are being held responsible for your notion that because bullies will attack kids from same sex, or other couples you don't agree with, that those couples aren't fit parents.

    Totally false notion to blame the parents for what the kids of other parents (and the parents) do.
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  • Posted by Boborobdos 12 years, 7 months ago in reply to this comment.
    Actually I oppose marrying the dog because in human years they aren't old enough to give consent. If you have one that is over the legal age for marriage all they have to do is communicate that they are giving consent when questioned. Of course the official must be convinced that the response is the result of understanding the question, just as any human being would be evaluated.

    I totally agree that religious nuts who want to run the lives of others so they can get their ticket to their version of heaven is stealing free choice (isn't that something their god guarantees) from another. Very hypocritical.
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  • Posted by Boborobdos 12 years, 7 months ago in reply to this comment.
    ROFL... Children should not be taken from parents because you think something is ucky or nefarious. What about the freedom of the parents to CHOOSE who they are and what they want to be? What about the choice of the parents on how to bring up their kids?
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  • Posted by barwick11 12 years, 7 months ago in reply to this comment.
    Oh, and yes I do know plenty of gays and transgenders, my cousin as a matter of fact, one of my best friends growing up.

    She knows what I believe about her lifestyle, and I haven't ever brought it up with her except when she did. When we're around, it's not even a topic of conversation because frankly, she's a big kid. I still bring my entire family (all 5 kids) around her and her partner, and it's a jolly old time.

    Lately it's gone south because she brought the topic up again to explain why I wasn't being invited to her "wedding" because of what I believe. I told her I didn't expect to be invited, and though I'd have no problem with her getting a civil union, I couldn't support a gay "marriage" anyhow. She didn't like that, chose to take offense, whatever. I didn't get all pouty when she and others trashed on my Christian faith, but apparently humanists can't take disagreement.
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  • Posted by $ Mimi 12 years, 7 months ago in reply to this comment.
    Television is escape not reality. You can over-saturate the market and dull the interest of the viewer. Come back in ten years and discuss the viewing trend then.
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  • Posted by $ 12 years, 7 months ago in reply to this comment.
    I'd be perfectly willing to share any further information on the story if I can find any.
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  • Posted by khalling 12 years, 7 months ago in reply to this comment.
    Byjr
    the story is glaringly missing any factual details. If the courts were involved there is public record. Thiis is all speculation and likely not true with the information provided. There are plenty of gay couples out there with children. There is no legal precedence in recent history to support what the article alleges and there is support out there to show this is a common tactic to incite sympathy to a political cause or agenda. Again the courts cannot remove your children because you had a sec change. If the story were true there is other evidence we do not have
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