i feel your pain
one of my wife's kids is blaming her for all of the kid's wrong choices

kid is in her 40's, yet somehow my wife is to blame, kid has had a truly gifted life, yet somehow, my single parent wife (step-kid to me also) is responsible for the choices, the dad did not keep up his financial responsibilities

this "kid" when young also abuse her sibling.

i am sorry for the loss of your Friend. Fred will be waiting for you, he is likely putting a smile on God's face right now

She did this while I was in the hospital. I am also feeling very angry because I lost down to 110 pounds and I think I look like somebody else. My doctor said I hadn't seen him in 4 years and boy was he serious. Well I don't believe you need to see a doctor unless you are ill. nb