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Welcome to The West

Posted by Eudaimonia 10 years, 10 months ago to Philosophy
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Two nights ago, Joan and I took Ron to the local American Legion post for a beer (his favorite thing to do).
Ron and I were playing setback when a legion member came up to the table and asked if we wanted to play cribbage.
For years, I had been looking for anyone who could play cribbage.
We invited the man to sit down with us.
He grabbed the cribbage board from behind the bar and sat down.
Greg was a Marine gunnery sergeant who had been to many hot spots all over the world.
He had on a cap which was issued to very few people, a Native American member of the US military.
Greg was a full Lakota Sioux, born on the reservation in South Dakota.
He still visits his mother there.
The cribbage board had three lanes colored red, white, and blue (we were in an American Legion post after all).
I pulled the pegs from the back and asked Greg what color he wanted.
He replied, "since I'm the 'Red Man", I'll take red."
I took his challenge and said, "Okay, I'm the European, so, I'll take white."
Then the game and the smack talk began.
As Greg pulled ahead, Ron commented, "It looks like you're going to take Rick's scalp."
Greg looked at me, then replied to Ron, "There's really not a lot up there to take!"
Joan jumped in, "It's all on his face now, you'll have to take the beard."
Greg replied, "Let me get my knife."
He fumbled a bit looking for his, so I opened mine and handed it to him.
We laughed, got back to the game, and the smack talk continued.
As the night ended, Greg asked if he could say a blessing over our car to get us home safely.
We said, "Yes."
Greg then began to sing in Lakota Sioux and blessed the car.

New home, new friends.

Welcome to The West.


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  • Posted by Retired24-navy 10 years, 10 months ago in reply to this comment.
    There is also a mentality of freedom that lives in the SW, that the rest of the country know nothing about. My parents lives in Texas and almost never locked the doors and were never brokeinto. I live in Arizona and am 65, but I have to lockup most times as the thieves from east and CA always try the door. My yappy dog also tells me when someone is there. In our neighborhood we all watch each others house as the people in Phoenix did to help save the lady from a carjacker, and we have to watch out for the illegals too. We can walk down most any street, day or night and not be afraid, just caucios.
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  • Posted by Stormi 10 years, 10 months ago
    Thanks for sharing a wonderful encounter. I lived all over the West growing up, then moved to the Midwest as a young adult. We try to return to the west every couple years, you have to refresh yourself with real people, not yuppie phonies. I once talked with a Navajo at Canyon de Chelly who told of his time in the Army, how he hated big cities, and could not wait to return to the reservation. The authenticity of people in the West is amazing and gives one hope. A vacation from insulting political correctness is needed every so often. Part Cherokee, I have no patience with the inauthenticity of the Midwest or silly pandering to cultural groups to gain power. My heart remains in N.M., Wyo. N. Dakota and Texas.
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  • Posted by Herb7734 10 years, 10 months ago
    Another illustration of the uniqueness of America. I doubt if this would happen quite this way anywhere else.
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  • Posted by skidance 10 years, 10 months ago in reply to this comment.
    +1. In genera,l the more rural areas of the West are home to many responsible, sensible people.
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  • Posted by NealS 10 years, 10 months ago in reply to this comment.
    I really love the way you left the West Coast out of the list. I always thought California, Oregon, and Washington were in the West, but I really like your rendition better. The West Coast unfortunately is becoming like the East Coast.
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  • Posted by jimslag 10 years, 10 months ago
    The West is a different culture than back East. I grew up in the Midwest and moved out to Colorado in the 70's. Just a different outlook on life I guess. Anyway, I have called the West my home since. Does not matter, Colorado, Arizona, New Mexico, Nevada, Wyoming, Montana or Idaho and Utah, it's different and I know, I was in the military and lived on the both coasts, but I always came back to the West.
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  • Posted by $ winterwind 10 years, 10 months ago
    thanks for the share. It's part of why I truly believe that the big North-South river should be a border. Westerners are different.
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  • Posted by $ jbrenner 10 years, 10 months ago
    We'll have to visit you up there. My wife is fascinated with the Lakota.
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  • Posted by LetsShrug 10 years, 10 months ago
    Aren't your feeling wonderful about your move already? Thank you for sharing :)
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  • Posted by Hiraghm 10 years, 10 months ago
    I remember the saying going, "For evil to win, all that has to happen is for *men of good will* to do nothing".

    I have no proof, but I am of the opinion that many of today's problems could be solved if more "men of good will" were in more prominent and powerful positions.
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