Near Miss This Morning
Thought I'd share here. This morning when I was driving in to my office in the dark I almost was in a head-on collision with somebody driving the wrong way on our local blvd. It happened so fast. He grazed the dodge durango in front of me, headed my way, and I managed to swerve very hard across the center divide to miss him. Luckily, at that early hour, nobody was coming the other way on the other side. It happened so quick - from seeing his headlights to just missing him was only about two seconds. I quickly spun my truck around to try to intervene or see how he ended up. Luckily, again, hardly anybody out at that hour. He got turned around and was being visited by the durango driver...who was so frightened he was shaking. I made sure the wrong-way driver didn't leave because he was clearly challenged...acting drunk. Ends up he is an old veteran suffering from diabetes. Guys...this happened so fast. My body just reacted and my mind thought, "So...this is how it happens..." I was shaken, but am at work today...reevaluating my life a little bit.
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And just last month my husband's 31-year old nephew died in a house fire. His wife realized the house was on fire and tried to wake him, but he was already gone from gas inhalation (at least he didn't burn to death). She just got out of the hospital after 3 weeks in ICU. Of course her life will never be the same! And only 31! So much promise. Both were high achievers (of course she still is).
Now about those people with diabetes. You don't have to be old or, well, anything, to go into insulin shock, especially a T1. But T2s who take insulin can also be affected. And it often looks like drunk driving, but testing tells the story. How do we get affected sufferers of diabetes off the road? I don't know. I tried 20+ years and finally refused to allow my (then) husband to drive our kids anywhere. He just couldn't keep his glucose levels high enough to be competent.
So glad it was a "near miss" and not a dead-center hit. There's no such thing as being "too" alert when you are driving. These things DO happen fast. You don't see them coming, until they are there.
That's when I was a young man with sharp reflexes in my early twenties and fairly fresh out of the Marines.
Anyway, year by year, at least twice on the boulevard I drove by multi-car bumper-to-bumper pileups that involved six or more cars. Someone would ram the back of a braked to a stop car and then what followed was a domino effect.
One day I was driving home and was on Southern Boulevard beside a grass island between the different direction lanes and was in a line of cars stopped by a red light.
Dead behind me I heard Crash! Crash! Crash! and immediately knew what was coming. I took my foot of the brake and briefly toed the gas while wheeling right onto that grassy median.
The last car hit got bumped halfway through the space my car had vacated~~that stopping the domino bumper-to-bumper effect.
Save for some people rubbing the back of their necks, no one was seriously hurt. Well, maybe.
You never know when the end will come - glad that this is giving you time to think about life - verse your loved ones missing you in theirs.
Glad you made it. There are a lot of compromised individuals driving who should not be.
Are you in the Santa Cruz area?
Just to add my recent experience: I was pushing my cart out of the supermarket the other day, across a yellow band on the road, marked so that drivers should yield to pedestrians.
I saw a car coming from the left and took it for granted he'd stop seeing me crossing.
He did not.
I was in the yellow strip already when he hit my cart. Then he stopped, stepping out of his car, apologizing profusely.
He was a very old guy who either looked the other way or did not know driving rules. I was shaken up and was less than polite as I told him he was an arse and should not be driving.
You can't have a drink at work but have one when you go home and relax.